Where Is Your Soulmate?

Nearly every day I get two kinds of messages from readers of The Soulmate Secret. The first kind is a big thank you email with news about how they have successfully manifested their soulmate using the steps outline in The Soulmate Secret and my Soulmate Kit.

The second type of message is a polite complaint about how they have been using some of the steps for 3 or 6 or 12 months but have not yet met their soulmate and they want to know if what else they could/should be doing.

For those folks I almost always have the same answer: please remember the role that Divine Timing plays in all of life.

While you may feel that you are absolutely ready for a soulmate right now, the Universe, Karma, God, Goddess, the forces of Good, your angels, devas, and ancestors (or whoever and whatever you believe in) may have picked out the most perfect person for you and it’s just not TIME for you two to get together. (yet).

Can you be patient? Can you love your life right now? (And yourself?) Can you find new ways to savor the waiting? Can you dream up new ways to give more love to the friends, family, and co-workers already surrounding you? Have you truly released and healed any barriers to love within yourself or is there some one you have yet to forgive? (Hint: maybe yourself?)

Here’s one thing I can promise you: when you do finally meet your soulmate you will inevitably discover that it was the perfect time for both of you and you will also know that he or she was worth the wait!

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love

The Secret to More Love In Your Life

One of the most powerful manifestors I know is Dr. Gay Hendricks. I have had the good fortune of working closely with him for the last six years with Spiritual Cinema Circle, which he conceived and launched. You probably know Gay and his wife, Dr. Kathlyn Hendricks, as internationally renowned relationship experts. They have written many bestselling books and have appeared on Oprah and other national TV shows.

Truly, they are an amazing couple who model a true soulmate connection. Having counselled thousands of couples, they offer great insight into what it takes to both manifest love and sustain a long term marriage.

Whenever I am creating or manifesting something new in my life, I always call on them for their advice and support.

Today, I’d like to introduce you to the most powerful relationship program I’ve ever seen: The Relationship Catalyst, developed by Gay and Kathlyn. The program is simple and easy to use. When you work with the program, it has the effect of creating more love, harmony and manifestation power in your life right away.

It May Seem Like Magic But It’s Real!

Whether you’re single or in a relationship, now there’s a new way you can take your love life into a new dimension. If you’re single, you use The Relationship Catalyst to manifest the relationship of your dreams. If you’re in a relationship now, you use it to break free from old patterns, restore harmony and create the life together that you always wanted.

How The Relationship Catalyst Works: The Main Components

The SINGLES CATALYST

If you’re single, divorced or widowed, you use this program to speed up the manifestation of your ideal partner. It assists you in making several inner shifts that change your relationship destiny, allowing you to draw a healthy relationship into your life by easeful attraction rather than stressful pursuit.

The SIX SECRETS:

What You Really Need To Know About Relationships

These six little programs are designed to clear away inherited misinformation and unconscious patterns you picked up as a child. You get a fresh start, with the real truth about how to handle the six aspects of relationship that matter most.

The HARMONIZER

Touch a button and soft music begins. Simple instructions bring you rapidly into a feeling of inner harmony. Feel old patterns dissolve and disappear as you shift into a new state of consciousness.

Anytime you want to feel closeness and harmony with your partner, simply sit down and plug in to this 20-minute program together. It’s especially useful to restore harmony when you’re feeling distant or rattled after a disagreement.

The ONE-MINUTE MIRACLE VIDEOS

Get these seven little miracle-making videos all in one place. Each video contains a powerful tool for relationship enhancement that can be done in less than 60 seconds. Here are some of the topics the videos cover:

How To Stop An Argument

How To End Blame And Criticism

How To Tell If A Partner Is Lying

How To End Money Struggles

How To End Jealousy

There’s more that comes along with the program, including personal access to Drs. Hendricks every month, via videoconference and teleconference, so that people can get questions answered, fine-tune their practice of the program, and much more.

Click here for all the exciting details!  http://relationshipcatalyst.tv/

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love

The Upside of Expectations

Last June, I taught a Soulmate Secret weekend workshop in Dublin, Ireland ­a beautiful, magical part of the world. Yesterday I received this email from one of my students, Brendan, a widower, who was longing for a new soulmate. He shared with me his success story:

Dear Arielle,

Good news!

After a fruitless search for a partner for five years, I was fortunate to attend your seminar in Dublin early this year. Besides being won over by your lovely personality and genuine concern for helping everyone achieve happiness, I also took on board the simple techniques that you showed us are proven to work.

*I made my wish list of 19 qualities of my perfect soulmate.

*I stuck it up on the wall beside my pillow and enclosed it inside a big heart.

*I visualized what it would be like to live with this person.

*I threw my wishes out to the universe and expected to get a good result.

Two months later I was approached on a dating website by the woman of my dreams from Poltava in the Ukraine. She ticked off every one of my 19 ideal qualities for my soulmate, even though she spoke no English and I spoke no Russian!! The online site provided a daily translation service. An email sent by me before 12 noon got a reply in English that evening. A very efficient service!!

Nadya had also made a wish list of the qualities she expected in her perfect soulmate, and I matched them. Nine weeks later I met her in Poltava and proposed marriage within two days. We are getting married on the 30th April next year.

She said that she knew we would get married even before we met!!

Many thanks for your inspiration!

Brendan

One of the most powerful things Brendan did is this: “I threw my wishes out to the universe and expected to get a good result”. As you know, but it bears repeating, The Law of Attraction states that we draw to us the people and experiences that match our state of BEING, Brendan “expected” a good result and that is exactly what he got.

What are you expecting?

If it is hard for you to FEEL your way into your future wedding, be sure to check out The Soul Mate Kit, you will find countless exercises to help you get over the obstacles and find your soulmate.

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love

Going the Distance (For Love)

Have you ever been or are you currently in a long-distance relationship? How’s that working for you? Probably not great.

Long-distance relationships are fact of life for many of the estimated 4 million married couples that are living apart from each other, often because one of them has a job far from home.

This weekend we went to see the new Drew Barrymore film, GOING THE DISTANCE. It’s a laugh-out-loud romantic comedy about a couple struggling to make a relationship work when he lives in NYC and she lives in San Francisco.

Garrett (played by Justin Long), is a low-level record-company executive. He meets Drew Barrymore’s character, Erin, while she is interning for a summer at a top New York newspaper. A late bloomer in her early 30s, Erin had once given up everything for romance and was now committed to putting her career first.

They meet at a bar and Erin readily tells Garrett she is not looking to get “involved” and yet chemistry ignites and they enjoy a six-week whirlwind romance before she returns to school at Stanford. While the lovers decide to try to make their cross-country romance work with the help of Skype and cell phones, as with most long-distance relationships, trust begins to break down.

They soon discover that seeing each other once every three months just isn’t enough, and phone sex just doesn’t do it for either of them. I won’t spoil the ending for you but here’s what I can tell you: Skype is great and a virtual hug is never as satisfying as the real thing.

When you are creating your soulmate wish list it’s REALLY IMPORTANT to include on your list WHERE you want to live if you already LOVE where you live. (If you are a free spirit and willing to move anywhere, this doesn’t apply to you.)

As many of you already know, I believe the top two items on everyone’s soulmate wish list need to be the same:

#1 ­ My soulmate is open, willing and available for a long-term, committed, monogamous (add straight or gay) marriage (or partnership if you don’t desire to be married.)

#2. ­ My soulmate lives within ___ miles of me or is willing to move to be with me.

Then add in the traits and qualities of your desired soulmate and descriptions of your life together that will make your heart sing. And, you just might want to add in: My soulmate loves to take me to see romantic comedy films.  Wink. Wink.

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My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love

Living As If: A Reminder

The period of time when you are waiting for your soulmate to make his or her presence known to you gives you an important opportunity for self-reflection.

Consider this: If your soulmate had the ability to see your life right now, would you (and they) be happy with what they were observing?

Begin to live your life today as if they are already here. This is the secret to activating the Law of Attraction!

Chances are, if you really knew your soulmate was on his or her way to you, you would hold yourself to a higher standard than you do now ­ so why wait for them to arrive to put these things in place?

Think not only about what you do on a given day but also the way that you represent yourself to others. Remember, you will attract someone who energetically “matches” the degree of esteem that you hold towards yourself.

If there are behaviors you’re engaged in that you wouldn’t want your future lover to see, stop them. This might mean giving up obsessing over your ex-lover or having casual sex with your neighbor.

“Living As If” can be fun, easy and simple. Before I met Brian I was buying him birthday cards, and anniversary cards and “just because I love you” cards. (I really like the cards at www.soulebrate.com) I also bought some tickets to concerts and plays that I wanted to attend.

Get creative! One woman I know just finished a “boudoir photo session” and is making an album of sensual photos to hand over to her soulmate when he walks through the door.

Remember, the process of attracting your soulmate is one of magnetism. When you make the choice to live as if your soulmate is already a part of your life, you send out an irresistible signal to the Universe that you are ready now. Not a signal that you’ll be ready someday ­ when you work less and your house is clean and you’ve lost five pounds!

Remember the famous line in the 1989 movie, Field of Dreams starring Kevin Costner? “If you build it, they will come.” Living as if is like flipping on a light switch inside your heart. This is the light your beloved will use to navigate his or her way to your door.

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love

Soulmate Success! Meet Robin Rice Who Dared to Dream of Love!

Here’s a letter I just had to share with you from my friend, the amazing Robin Rice, who shares how she manifested her soulmate five years ago.


Dear Arielle,

As you know, I just love your book, The Soulmate Secret, and the story of how you found your beloved Brian. Since I have a Brian of my own, I wanted to share how I manifested him, using the very techniques you speak of… imagining, feeling, knowing, and living as if it is already done.

Let me first say that after seven years of being single, I was more than a little discouraged and frustrated. I knew I was clear on what I wanted, and I felt he was out there—somewhere. But it was getting hard to have faith. So I got really, really serious. I took action.

First, I decided that luxury and sensuality were big parts of what I wanted in my relationship. So I went out and got 600-count sheets for my bed, a few extra fluffy new pillows, and a dozen votive candles to surround my bed with. I also got fresh flowers to put with the candles.

Every three days—yes, without fail for seven months—I put out fresh flowers, and took the wilted flowers and put them out in a nearby river, asking Mother Nature to carry my wish to the great Mother Ocean.

Every night, crawling into bed, and every morning waking up, I felt the luxury and sensuality I imagined my beloved would bring to me. I smiled to myself, feeling what it would feel like even before he arrived. I sent prayers for him, knowing he was already somewhere in the world, and maybe even wishing for me.

The seven months more than paid off. My Brian is the easiest, most sensual, most luxurious relationship I’ve ever had times ten! I could not have imagined the ease with which we partner in our lives. It’s five years now, and we’ve had a private wedding in every country we have traveled to!

As you say… dream it, feel it, know it and then see it.

Much appreciation for all you offer us!

Robin Rice

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love

The Love You Seek is Already Yours…

Manifesting becomes effortless when you have a clear intention that resonates in every cell of your body. This week allow yourself to remember why it is that you desire a soulmate.

Consider how you, and your life, will be more enriched when you are sharing your daily life with your beloved.

What is that you have to offer your soulmate?

What is it that you most want to share with them?

What is it that you most seek from the relationship?

As you ponder these questions allow yourself to have an experience of present moment awareness and really imagine yourself with these questions answered.  Use this moment to feel what it feels like to be sharing your life, right now, with your soulmate.

Make this a daily practice. I can’t emphasize how important it is to make your soulmate attraction plan a DAILY PRACTICE.  As you continue to focus your intention and attention on your heart’s desire, knowing that what you’ve asked for is ALREADY yours, you magnetize it to you.

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love

Finding Love When & Where You Least Expect It

People often ask me if Brian was working on manifesting his soulmate when he met me and the simple answer is no. Meeting someone new was the last thing on his mind, in fact, when we met he was in the midst of ending a relationship.

As I have said many, many times, Intention, Attention and Divine Timing all go hand-in-hand when it comes to manifesting your soulmate. Here’s a perfect case in point:

Krista, a divorcee, bought The Soulmate Secret in January 2009, just days after it was published. Soon after she contacted me via Facebook when she told me she actually met someone while standing in line at the bookstore to pay for the book.

It turned out that the man she met was not her future soulmate but I remember thinking at the time that this is a woman who is absolutely going to manifest her soulmate. I told her to be sure to stay in touch and keep me posted.

The other day Krista reconnected to tell me that eight months after doing all the exercises, working through the forgiveness processes, journaling about her ideal soulmate, she has found the ONE and they are now planning a life together.

I asked her if I could speak to her soulmate, Don, to find out what, if anything he had done to manifest Krista. Here’s what he had to say:

“The day Krista and I met, I had just ended a 21 year marriage. After a long drawn out process to save the marriage, it was finally clear we couldn’t make it work. I was out looking for a new place to live when I stopped into a local Anthropologie store (www.anthropologie.com).

Walking around dazed, as if underwater, and feeling fairly numb, my heart was in a deep freeze. I remember I was admiring a table in the store. As a writer I knew that I would need to create a workspace for my new place, and this particular table appealed to me.

As I stood there with a notebook under my arm, this woman asked me if I was a designer. I turned around and saw this pretty woman and we began what became an animated conversation. I shared with her that I was looking for a new place to live and she readily offered me some local real estate information.

It quickly became clear that we had a lot in common but neither of us was thinking that it would turn into anything more than a friendship. I will say that I felt an instant bond with her.

I followed up and sent her a thank you email and one thing led to another and soon we were spending a lot of time getting to know each other. The more time we spent together the more apparent it became that we had something special… we really relate to each other on a deep level. I soon realized I had never met anyone that touches me the way she does.

I feel as if I have met my soulmate. As a journalist there is a part of me that is skeptical, questioning can this really happen like this? But I know this is the love match I’ve been dreaming about my whole life. When she walked into my life something big changed.”

As for Krista, she couldn’t be happier. During that random visit to the Anthropologie store she found more than a few new books, she found her soulmate. “Don is everything on my soulmate wish list. We just clicked!”

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love