Before You Can Be Love… Do This

There are moments on this path of “being love” when love feels… nowhere to be found. Not in your heart. Not in your thoughts. And definitely not in the way you’re speaking to yourself. You’re irritated. Contracted. Maybe even ashamed. And the idea of “just choose love” feels like spiritual nonsense. So here’s a different […]

Love in Homeopathic Doses (The Pink Kiss Experiment 💋)

Do you remember “a spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down?” Lately, I’ve been practicing my own version of emotional medicine. On the days when I feel annoyed, irritated, or flat-out disgusted with someone (or something)—you know, when I’m deep in my inner “I don’t want to and you can’t make me” stance—I gently […]

The Improbability of Love — And Yet It Happens

The other day I started wondering about something. Is love… actually improbable? If you think about it statistically, the whole thing is kind of ridiculous. There are over eight billion people on this planet. Somehow two of them — often from completely different backgrounds, cities, families, and personal quirks — cross paths at just the […]

Love, Cats, Cookies… and One Big Question

When I think of the word love, my first thought is usually about a feeling. That warm, fuzzy, cozy feeling I have for someone — like my Bri. Or Banana. Or Max. (the cats!) Then there are the feelings attached to how much I love chocolate chip cookies with nuts… preferably with a side of […]

After 20 Years Teaching Love… Here’s What I See Now

For many years, my work revolved around helping people find love and keep love. Books, workshops, conversations, countless introductions — all in service of helping people discover the magic of a soulmate relationship and then build something lasting together. And I still believe deeply in that journey. But lately I’ve been reflecting on something the […]

Helicopters Don’t Build Commitment. Costco Does

My friend Steve Dworman, a thoughtful single dad in L.A. who is genuinely seeking a long-term partner, recently wrote a terrific Substack unpacking why dating shows like The Bachelor and Love Is Blind almost never produce lasting love. And he didn’t just rant. He brought research. Here’s the uncomfortable truth: those shows are engineered for […]

Just Had a Great First Date? Read This First!

Just had a delicious first date? You’re floating a little. He was attentive. There was laughter. Maybe a hug that lingered just a second longer than necessary. You get home and immediately want to text. Not yet. A thoughtful single dad in L.A. — my friend Steve Dworman — recently wrote a Substack that illuminated […]

Stop Trying to Make Your Relationship Work

GUEST BLOG from the one and only Evan Marc Katz It’s the question I hear over and over again from smart, successful women: “Evan, how do I make this relationship work?” Now, don’t get me wrong, the desire to create a lasting relationship is noble. But that question: “How do I maintain this? How do […]

“The Original Love Stories —Love Was Never Meant to Be Simple”

Long before roses, heart-shaped chocolates, and overpriced Valentine’s dinners, ancient stories were already teaching us what love really is. And spoiler alert: it’s not just happily-ever-after. As Valentine’s Day creeps closer, we’re sold one version of romance — perfect partners, perfect timing, perfect endings. But Hindu mythology tells a far richer story. One where divine […]

When Your Soul Whispers… This Is What to Do

Have you noticed… your soul has been getting a little louder lately? Not in a dramatic, lightning-bolt kind of way. More subtle. More intimate. More persistent. It might arrive as that tiny inner voice while you’re doom-scrolling, gently insisting, “Please… put the phone down.” Or as a quiet exhaustion, a restlessness you can’t quite name, […]