Love and Death

The other day we were at the home of Maria Menunous where I was taping her Sirius radio show (it will air next month and then be available on her podcast).

We were standing in her garden while two beautiful yellow and black butterflies flew in tandem, circling us for several minutes in a beautiful dance.

I really felt as if those butterflies were friends from the other side saying hello, reminding me they were nearby…. I believe they send us signs and find ways to remind us that they truly are always with us….

Why is it that we always speak about the dead in the past tense… as if they are
no longer around? I truly believe that not only are they still around, but they are also looking for ways to connect with us.

After John Lennon died, someone asked Yoko Ono what that was like for her. She said, “Before John died, we were together 90% of the time. Now he is with me 100% of the time.

One thing I do know for sure is that love never dies….

For those of you that want assistance in your life, you can ask your loved ones on the other side for help (I explain how in my free book at www.loveontheotherside.com).

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,

Arielle

Spiritual and Highly Sensitive People Have the Hardest Time in Love

Although this seems very counter-intuitive, I have found the highly sensitive and spiritual people (for now I will call you HSP’s) have the hardest time finding love and keeping love, especially women.

One of the biggest issues around this I have observed is that HSP’s are deeply feeling, not only their own feelings but the feelings of those around them. And sometimes they can’t discern between basic intuition and their own fears or projections. This can lead to making assumptions about someone else’s behavior or possibly do the opposite and they overlook their actions because they feel good around them.

My dear friend and love expert Carol Allen, is hosting a free webinar tomorrow, Wednesday, called “The Soulfully Sensitive Woman in Love” for women of any relationship status…

This is for you if:

  • You have a hard time “letting things go” or “shaking things off” when things don’t go well or as planned.
  • You’re extremely hurt by perceived rejection or when men “disappear” or “pull away” for a while and end up internalizing what happened and unfairly blaming yourself.
  • You take breakups extra hard and can take years to recover or let yourself like someone again – fearing that the risk is just too great to bear.
  • You take it all too hard – normal disappointments or problems seem insurmountable or “not worth it” so they get stuck and stay invisible.

Carol is a genius at helping women with these issues so don’t miss this opportunity to attend her FREE webinar.

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,

Arielle

The Drug You Must Give Up to Manifest Your Dreams

My wise and brilliant friend, John Assaraf, recently wrote:

“The older I get (and hopefully wiser), I realize that some people are just happiest (or most comfortable) when they are miserable.

I know it’s an oxymoron but it’s true. As I travel the world sharing the lessons and specific strategies for achieving success, I come across so many people who prefer to be right vs. change and have what they say they want.

The drug of choice today is “Hopium” where people hope for things to get better and do nothing to help themselves and the inflammation disease that many suffer from is “Excuse-itis,” an inflammation of the excuse gland.

Success is about learning how to do the right things, in the right order at the right time… and then…. Just do it!”

I agree with John. I often see the same thing.

Sometimes, without consciously realizing it, we are addicted to suffering, trapped in our misery. Stuck in our story….the story that we think we just can’t have, or don’t deserve, what we most desire. Or, we are doing the same things over and over again, wishing for a different result, not realizing that it’s time for a radical change in approach.

If you been living on “Hopium,” or you need more inspiration and direction to manifest your heart’s biggest desire, NOW is the time to give up the Hopium pipe, to go cold turkey, and commit to making your dream(s) come true. (And I know some of you are tired, angry, and frustrated that it hasn’t happened yet…. Still not a good reason to give up.)

The steps are simple (but not necessarily easy):

  • Get absolute clarity on what you desire and how you will FEEL when it’s attained.
  • Commit time every day to be in the feelings of “dreams fulfilled.”
  • Take right action, even if it’s just daily baby steps.
  • Get an accountability partner.
  • Invest your time, energy, money, intention and attention to your dream.

Go for it. You deserve it.

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,

Arielle

P.S. BE IN LOVE by the Holidays! Meet me for the last LIVE Soulmate Secret workshop of the year which includes a magical, powerful “fire ceremony” to release the past and propel you into your romantic future. Join me October 19-21st at the stunning Omega Institute in Rhinebeck, NY. DETAILS HERE.

How To Be The LeBron of Your Life!

This morning Brian and I were talking about NBA superstar, LeBron James, and what it took for him to achieve greatness…all the dedicated hours of practice, energy, focus, and most importantly, desire.

I realized that many of the same things apply to manifesting your hearts desire without as much sweat!

Are you ready to get into the GAME and finally win?

Let’s begin with DESIRE.

Ask yourself this question:

Why do I desire a soulmate (or a new career or that awesome Mercedes)?

Really get in touch with how you most want to feel with him or her or it.

Loved? Cherished? Adored? Successful? Fulfilled? Satisfied? Abundant?

Take a little time each day to really feel what it feels like to experience this level of love or whatever. (and use your imagination!)

For those of you who are really BUSY, it’s important to accept that manifesting your desires requires you to invest some time.

This includes times to do the manifestation steps, the feelingizations, etc.

Nature abhors a vacuum.

Create the time in your calendar today to be filled up by your action steps.

Manifesting also has a monetary cost involved, an investment.

If you are serious about fulfilling your heart’s desire, now is the time to make the investment of time, money and energy! Go for it…. be like LeBron!

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,

Arielle

How? The one word that stifles manifestation

Someone asked me today what my “secret” to manifesting is, and quite simply the answer is “I remember that at the quantum level what I’ve asked for IS already mine.”

In the “field” we are ALREADY connected to that which we desire.

When you spend your time in a state of deep gratitude, for whatever it is that you seek, you are affirming and living as if in such a way that it manifests more quickly into the 3-D world.

On the other hand, if your monkey mind is asking “but HOW will this happen,” that question has the underlying thinking that if you knew HOW, then you could be ASSURED of its arrival. By asking how, you are affirming that IT doesn’t exist or isn’t possible for you.

You do NOT need to know how, or when, or where your dream will come true.

Hint: It’s coming from wherever it is right now.

You do need to trust the Universe, have faith in the process, and manage your monkey mind when it wants to discourage you.

One way to do this is to give your Monkey Mind a name.

It could be Negative and Nasty Nancy, or Mr. No Possibility, or Mrs. Full of Doubt and Discouragement.

Then create a special journal to give this negative voice a place to vent, thank it for sharing, and then be sure to counter his/her argument with your TRUTH.

And remember, that there is Divine Timing at work, so just because you can’t “see it” yet, doesn’t mean it’s not already there.

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,

Arielle

The Love Potion Enhanced by Art & Music

Prolific artist/musician Sharron Katz has an inspiring soulmate manifestation story that I just had to share with you.

Now, at age 61, she is happily with her beloved, Mike, 66, and together they are sharing a juicy, creative, open, honest, musical and artistic life together.

But it almost didn’t happen.

After a 15-year marriage and a super bad divorce, Sharron had big doubts if she would ever find real love.

Thank God she trusted her intuition, and she was willing to do the deep work on herself and of course, followed The Soulmate Secret manifestation steps.

Intuition #1: She moved to a smaller town once her daughter left for college.

Intuition #2: In addition to creating a soulmate wish list, she had a vision to create a painting of her and her man (you are looking at it now!) to assist magnetizing him in.

Intuition #3: Once moved into her new town, she boldly and bravely found a Facebook group of local musicians and invited these like-minded strangers to her home for a party. Mr. Right was among the guests that night and sparks flew.

One of Sharron’s big commitments to herself was to work on love from the inside out and to be fully open and honest about what she most wanted and needed in a relationship. And, she wasn’t going to “settle” for anything less than that level of honesty and transparency.

The relationship was on.

Then it was off (several times).

Then it was on again and eventually, it became clear that Sharron and Mike were meant to be.

Sharron says, “He thinks I have a beautiful body, even though I’m the most voluptuous I’ve ever been. He loves my art…but more than this…he loves my heart as he treats it so tenderly.

Mike says, “I feel like I just want to wrap myself around you and protect you from all the outside world and keep you safe.”

Oh….SIGH…. isn’t love grand?

Sharron and Mike are just more proof that finding Big Love is possible for everyone, regardless of age, weight, or failed relationships from the past. And….when you have clarity about what your soul is most calling for, YOU get your wants and your needs met with the right partner.

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,

Arielle

Pleasure Puppies – Only 6 weeks left of SUMMER

Are you having ENOUGH pleasure in your life?

Are you willing to have MORE PLEASURE NOW?

Summer is the perfect season to UP your pleasure puppy game, build your oxytocin levels, reduce your stress, and have more fun.

Here’s what I am committing to doing to fill my oxytocin tanks:

  • Swim in the ocean
  • See Mission Impossible with Tom Cruise
  • Eat delicious summer fruit every day and let the juice run down my face
  • Take extra long walks and REALLY smell the roses
  • Continue binge watching THIS IS US (I’m up to episode 19!)
  • Eat as many meals outdoors as possible
  • Go to an outdoor concert (or two!)
  • Figure out how to make Prosecco ice-pops (and eat them as we watch the sunset)
  • Only wear brightly colored clothes
  • Perfect my “do less accomplish more” magical manifesting!!

What will you do to have more pleasure and fun?

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,

Arielle

Are You 2 Degrees From Your Soulmate (or your next BIG dream)

Commerical airline pilot Lisa could easily be called an adventurous woman. In addition to flying jumbo jets, she has gone on many solo journeys from mountain trekking in Peru to dog sledding in Iceland.

A student of my seven-week online course (see more info www.soulmatepassion.com), Lisa was dedicated and did her feelingizations on a regular basis, wrote and released her wish list, sent me her “letter from the future,” and completed the other exercises and rituals.

She even bought herself a Harley thinking that might be a great way to meet a man since she was convinced just sitting around her favorite local coffee cart wasn’t going to bring her to her soulmate.

Except it did!

At age 55, she finally met her gorgeous soulmate Brian…

Here’s what happened.

As a regular at the coffee cart, she met a nice married man named Chuck. She even met Chuck’s mother who was fascinated by petite Lisa riding that big Harley.

After two years of friendly, casual chatting, Chuck mentioned he had a single brother, so Lisa asked a few questions and within minutes, Chuck called his brother and connected the two of them.

Three days later, they had their first date and from the moment they met, Lisa fell hopelessly in love! Brian, like Lisa, is an adventurous traveler, extremely intelligent, multi-lingual….and funny!

They sometimes wake up at 2 am to talk and just laugh. They were married on the beach in the Yucatán on September 20, 2017.

“He is the most amazing man…. generous, thoughtful, loves to clean the house and is great with the grill. Now I look forward to coming home after my trips! We cherish each other and send silly, wonderful love notes to each other. We do not take our time for granted since we met later in life…. every day is truly a gift from God. I kissed a lot of frogs…and finally found my Prince in my mid-50s,” gushes Lisa.

Your soulmate (or your Big Dream) could be just two degrees away….who are you talking to, befriending, hanging out with, that may be the next step to the life of your dreams?

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,

Arielle

Will You Ever Be “Fixed?”

I recently had a conversation with a highly successful man who blew my mind.

We totally bonded over the fact that we are both happy users of the Heartmath technology, and as we talked he confessed something to me.

This tall, dark, and handsome retired NFL player and successful business owner with a beautiful wife and 5 children (living in the most expensive zip code in the country, had tears in his eyes when he showed me his Superbowl ring. He said it was the first time he had worn it in years because most of the time he doesn’t feel worthy enough.

What? This gorgeous hunk, who appears to have it all, has worthiness issues?

He had just completed some deep transformational work and was excited to be moving forward in his life now that he was finally dealing with his core wound issues.

And it was sad to learn how much he suffered internally with his fears and limiting beliefs about himself.

All of this got me thinking about so many of my “super successful friends” who still harbor deep feelings of doubt, insecurity, impostor syndrome and even self-loathing.

I have spent the majority of my life reading self-help books, attending personal growth workshops, been in therapy, tried all kinds of modalities and treatments and sometimes prescription drugs, all in the name of healing some part of my soul and psyche.

The good news is that a lot of this stuff worked.

I did find understanding, relief, transformation, healing and peace.

And the truth is, for me, that some of the things I most wanted to “completely heal” (hint: make them go away forever) are still there.

These “issues” are still lingering under the surface, only coming up once in awhile but still there.

I have finally come to understand that this is totally OK.

Normal even.

Through the years, I have developed my own personal spiritual/emotional toolkit (which includes heart lock-ins and feelingizations) that help me through the day (or the night or the week) and I am no longer crippled by the fear or pain or discomfort that once drove me crazy.

Plus, I have now declared myself “cooked.”

This is it.

This is as good as I’m going to get and it’s GOOD ENOUGH!

But, if you aren’t yet “cooked,” just remember that as you seek and find solutions to your issues, please do it with lots of self-care and compassion and remember to take baby steps and remember that you are already enough! (really, it’s true!)

I am sharing this with you today because if you are using your “issues” as a reason not to go for your dreams, stop it! These issues may always be there, but you only have so many breaths left to take on this planet, so I want to encourage you to go for it now.

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,

Arielle

A Miracle Story

Late last summer, Gabriel Jebb had a long conversation with his sister that ended with her telling him that he would be a great father and maybe it was time for him to look into adoption or finding a surrogate. Instead, he dove into online dating where he quickly encountered health coach Kerry Tepedino and was blown away to discover that she came with a bonus of an awesome son, Grayson.

After their first dinner, they immediately knew that they wanted to see each other again, but it wasn’t until the second date, at a U2 concert, that the sparks really started to fly. That’s when Kerry knew that there could be something really special between them because Gabriel was wildly fun, extremely energetic, not to mention pretty darn handsome.

A few weeks later Gabriel invited Kerry & Grayson on a nine-day camping trip. Everything went wrong… it was a tsunami outside, pouring rain and the tent had a leak so all 3 of them and the dog, ended up sharing one mattress to try to stay dry. It ended with Kerry going to the ER, because she couldn’t talk…. all this added to the chaos because she had 40 clients flying in for a retreat upon her return home days later.

Surviving that wacky camping trip proved to them they had something special to share as a family unit. And their love for each other was growing by the minute.

Gabriel moved in before Thanksgiving, and on last January 16th, he proposed in a helicopter ride above Fort Rosecrans Memorial cemetery where Kerry’s stepdad, the man who had raised her, is laid to rest. They did a right wing salute to dad in the helicopter and Gabriel proposed.

BUT….it was not predictable any of this would happen!

When Kerry was 35, she went to a well-known Vedic astrologer who was visiting the States from India, who told her she would never have children, which, of course made her very angry.

At age 39, hoping the astrologer was wrong, Kerry went to see the top fertility doctor in San Diego who, after many tests, confirmed she would never have children.

A few years later she went to visit the grave of her stepfather, Scott, and as she sat next to him, she wrote in her journal her feelings of devastation that she would never have children.

As she was sobbing and writing, she suddenly wrote:

“Fuck Fear! Nobody gets to tell me what my body can do!”

Kerry felt the power of this statement and made a commitment to figure out how to have a baby.

Knowing that she had two weeks before her next period she began doing daily tests to figure out when she was ovulating. Kerry quickly found a fertility clinic that was willing to support her in making it happen and she picked a sperm donor with her three “must haves:” he needed to be Caucasian, with brown hair and blue eyes, hoping that the baby would look somewhat like her.

There were seven possible matches, and she narrowed it down to two, and ended up choosing the one who she discovered had a jovial personality.

Within three weeks she was pregnant!!!

Convinced she would have a girl, she decided on the name Grace. When she found out she was having a boy, she chose the name Grayson, who was born on Stepdad Scott’s, birthday.

What a blessing.

I love this story because it’s more proof that in spite of what eastern astrologers and western doctors say, or whatever misguided beliefs we have, we can take action in creating our own miracles!

On Saturday, Brian and I had the honor of officiating at their wedding on the cliffs of the Torrey Pines Gliderport, where Gabriel is the Flight Director, overlooking the Pacific Ocean. It was a breathtakingly beautiful summer day with more than 150 friends and family cheering them on.

And little adorable Grayson, who calls Gabriel “Daddy,” was the ring bearer.

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,

Arielle

P.S. If you are ready for marriage and you have a sincere desire to manifest your soulmate, please visit www.soulmatepassion44.com to hear a free 75-minute webinar.