How To Be The LeBron of Your Life!

This morning Brian and I were talking about NBA superstar, LeBron James, and what it took for him to achieve greatness…all the dedicated hours of practice, energy, focus, and most importantly, desire.

I realized that many of the same things apply to manifesting your hearts desire without as much sweat!

Are you ready to get into the GAME and finally win?

Let’s begin with DESIRE.

Ask yourself this question:

Why do I desire a soulmate (or a new career or that awesome Mercedes)?

Really get in touch with how you most want to feel with him or her or it.

Loved? Cherished? Adored? Successful? Fulfilled? Satisfied? Abundant?

Take a little time each day to really feel what it feels like to experience this level of love or whatever. (and use your imagination!)

For those of you who are really BUSY, it’s important to accept that manifesting your desires requires you to invest some time.

This includes times to do the manifestation steps, the feelingizations, etc.

Nature abhors a vacuum.

Create the time in your calendar today to be filled up by your action steps.

Manifesting also has a monetary cost involved, an investment.

If you are serious about fulfilling your heart’s desire, now is the time to make the investment of time, money and energy! Go for it…. be like LeBron!

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,

Arielle

How? The one word that stifles manifestation

Someone asked me today what my “secret” to manifesting is, and quite simply the answer is “I remember that at the quantum level what I’ve asked for IS already mine.”

In the “field” we are ALREADY connected to that which we desire.

When you spend your time in a state of deep gratitude, for whatever it is that you seek, you are affirming and living as if in such a way that it manifests more quickly into the 3-D world.

On the other hand, if your monkey mind is asking “but HOW will this happen,” that question has the underlying thinking that if you knew HOW, then you could be ASSURED of its arrival. By asking how, you are affirming that IT doesn’t exist or isn’t possible for you.

You do NOT need to know how, or when, or where your dream will come true.

Hint: It’s coming from wherever it is right now.

You do need to trust the Universe, have faith in the process, and manage your monkey mind when it wants to discourage you.

One way to do this is to give your Monkey Mind a name.

It could be Negative and Nasty Nancy, or Mr. No Possibility, or Mrs. Full of Doubt and Discouragement.

Then create a special journal to give this negative voice a place to vent, thank it for sharing, and then be sure to counter his/her argument with your TRUTH.

And remember, that there is Divine Timing at work, so just because you can’t “see it” yet, doesn’t mean it’s not already there.

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,

Arielle

The Love Potion Enhanced by Art & Music

Prolific artist/musician Sharron Katz has an inspiring soulmate manifestation story that I just had to share with you.

Now, at age 61, she is happily with her beloved, Mike, 66, and together they are sharing a juicy, creative, open, honest, musical and artistic life together.

But it almost didn’t happen.

After a 15-year marriage and a super bad divorce, Sharron had big doubts if she would ever find real love.

Thank God she trusted her intuition, and she was willing to do the deep work on herself and of course, followed The Soulmate Secret manifestation steps.

Intuition #1: She moved to a smaller town once her daughter left for college.

Intuition #2: In addition to creating a soulmate wish list, she had a vision to create a painting of her and her man (you are looking at it now!) to assist magnetizing him in.

Intuition #3: Once moved into her new town, she boldly and bravely found a Facebook group of local musicians and invited these like-minded strangers to her home for a party. Mr. Right was among the guests that night and sparks flew.

One of Sharron’s big commitments to herself was to work on love from the inside out and to be fully open and honest about what she most wanted and needed in a relationship. And, she wasn’t going to “settle” for anything less than that level of honesty and transparency.

The relationship was on.

Then it was off (several times).

Then it was on again and eventually, it became clear that Sharron and Mike were meant to be.

Sharron says, “He thinks I have a beautiful body, even though I’m the most voluptuous I’ve ever been. He loves my art…but more than this…he loves my heart as he treats it so tenderly.

Mike says, “I feel like I just want to wrap myself around you and protect you from all the outside world and keep you safe.”

Oh….SIGH…. isn’t love grand?

Sharron and Mike are just more proof that finding Big Love is possible for everyone, regardless of age, weight, or failed relationships from the past. And….when you have clarity about what your soul is most calling for, YOU get your wants and your needs met with the right partner.

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,

Arielle

Pleasure Puppies – Only 6 weeks left of SUMMER

Are you having ENOUGH pleasure in your life?

Are you willing to have MORE PLEASURE NOW?

Summer is the perfect season to UP your pleasure puppy game, build your oxytocin levels, reduce your stress, and have more fun.

Here’s what I am committing to doing to fill my oxytocin tanks:

  • Swim in the ocean
  • See Mission Impossible with Tom Cruise
  • Eat delicious summer fruit every day and let the juice run down my face
  • Take extra long walks and REALLY smell the roses
  • Continue binge watching THIS IS US (I’m up to episode 19!)
  • Eat as many meals outdoors as possible
  • Go to an outdoor concert (or two!)
  • Figure out how to make Prosecco ice-pops (and eat them as we watch the sunset)
  • Only wear brightly colored clothes
  • Perfect my “do less accomplish more” magical manifesting!!

What will you do to have more pleasure and fun?

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,

Arielle

Are You 2 Degrees From Your Soulmate (or your next BIG dream)

Commerical airline pilot Lisa could easily be called an adventurous woman. In addition to flying jumbo jets, she has gone on many solo journeys from mountain trekking in Peru to dog sledding in Iceland.

A student of my seven-week online course (see more info www.soulmatepassion.com), Lisa was dedicated and did her feelingizations on a regular basis, wrote and released her wish list, sent me her “letter from the future,” and completed the other exercises and rituals.

She even bought herself a Harley thinking that might be a great way to meet a man since she was convinced just sitting around her favorite local coffee cart wasn’t going to bring her to her soulmate.

Except it did!

At age 55, she finally met her gorgeous soulmate Brian…

Here’s what happened.

As a regular at the coffee cart, she met a nice married man named Chuck. She even met Chuck’s mother who was fascinated by petite Lisa riding that big Harley.

After two years of friendly, casual chatting, Chuck mentioned he had a single brother, so Lisa asked a few questions and within minutes, Chuck called his brother and connected the two of them.

Three days later, they had their first date and from the moment they met, Lisa fell hopelessly in love! Brian, like Lisa, is an adventurous traveler, extremely intelligent, multi-lingual….and funny!

They sometimes wake up at 2 am to talk and just laugh. They were married on the beach in the Yucatán on September 20, 2017.

“He is the most amazing man…. generous, thoughtful, loves to clean the house and is great with the grill. Now I look forward to coming home after my trips! We cherish each other and send silly, wonderful love notes to each other. We do not take our time for granted since we met later in life…. every day is truly a gift from God. I kissed a lot of frogs…and finally found my Prince in my mid-50s,” gushes Lisa.

Your soulmate (or your Big Dream) could be just two degrees away….who are you talking to, befriending, hanging out with, that may be the next step to the life of your dreams?

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,

Arielle

Will You Ever Be “Fixed?”

I recently had a conversation with a highly successful man who blew my mind.

We totally bonded over the fact that we are both happy users of the Heartmath technology, and as we talked he confessed something to me.

This tall, dark, and handsome retired NFL player and successful business owner with a beautiful wife and 5 children (living in the most expensive zip code in the country, had tears in his eyes when he showed me his Superbowl ring. He said it was the first time he had worn it in years because most of the time he doesn’t feel worthy enough.

What? This gorgeous hunk, who appears to have it all, has worthiness issues?

He had just completed some deep transformational work and was excited to be moving forward in his life now that he was finally dealing with his core wound issues.

And it was sad to learn how much he suffered internally with his fears and limiting beliefs about himself.

All of this got me thinking about so many of my “super successful friends” who still harbor deep feelings of doubt, insecurity, impostor syndrome and even self-loathing.

I have spent the majority of my life reading self-help books, attending personal growth workshops, been in therapy, tried all kinds of modalities and treatments and sometimes prescription drugs, all in the name of healing some part of my soul and psyche.

The good news is that a lot of this stuff worked.

I did find understanding, relief, transformation, healing and peace.

And the truth is, for me, that some of the things I most wanted to “completely heal” (hint: make them go away forever) are still there.

These “issues” are still lingering under the surface, only coming up once in awhile but still there.

I have finally come to understand that this is totally OK.

Normal even.

Through the years, I have developed my own personal spiritual/emotional toolkit (which includes heart lock-ins and feelingizations) that help me through the day (or the night or the week) and I am no longer crippled by the fear or pain or discomfort that once drove me crazy.

Plus, I have now declared myself “cooked.”

This is it.

This is as good as I’m going to get and it’s GOOD ENOUGH!

But, if you aren’t yet “cooked,” just remember that as you seek and find solutions to your issues, please do it with lots of self-care and compassion and remember to take baby steps and remember that you are already enough! (really, it’s true!)

I am sharing this with you today because if you are using your “issues” as a reason not to go for your dreams, stop it! These issues may always be there, but you only have so many breaths left to take on this planet, so I want to encourage you to go for it now.

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,

Arielle

A Miracle Story

Late last summer, Gabriel Jebb had a long conversation with his sister that ended with her telling him that he would be a great father and maybe it was time for him to look into adoption or finding a surrogate. Instead, he dove into online dating where he quickly encountered health coach Kerry Tepedino and was blown away to discover that she came with a bonus of an awesome son, Grayson.

After their first dinner, they immediately knew that they wanted to see each other again, but it wasn’t until the second date, at a U2 concert, that the sparks really started to fly. That’s when Kerry knew that there could be something really special between them because Gabriel was wildly fun, extremely energetic, not to mention pretty darn handsome.

A few weeks later Gabriel invited Kerry & Grayson on a nine-day camping trip. Everything went wrong… it was a tsunami outside, pouring rain and the tent had a leak so all 3 of them and the dog, ended up sharing one mattress to try to stay dry. It ended with Kerry going to the ER, because she couldn’t talk…. all this added to the chaos because she had 40 clients flying in for a retreat upon her return home days later.

Surviving that wacky camping trip proved to them they had something special to share as a family unit. And their love for each other was growing by the minute.

Gabriel moved in before Thanksgiving, and on last January 16th, he proposed in a helicopter ride above Fort Rosecrans Memorial cemetery where Kerry’s stepdad, the man who had raised her, is laid to rest. They did a right wing salute to dad in the helicopter and Gabriel proposed.

BUT….it was not predictable any of this would happen!

When Kerry was 35, she went to a well-known Vedic astrologer who was visiting the States from India, who told her she would never have children, which, of course made her very angry.

At age 39, hoping the astrologer was wrong, Kerry went to see the top fertility doctor in San Diego who, after many tests, confirmed she would never have children.

A few years later she went to visit the grave of her stepfather, Scott, and as she sat next to him, she wrote in her journal her feelings of devastation that she would never have children.

As she was sobbing and writing, she suddenly wrote:

“Fuck Fear! Nobody gets to tell me what my body can do!”

Kerry felt the power of this statement and made a commitment to figure out how to have a baby.

Knowing that she had two weeks before her next period she began doing daily tests to figure out when she was ovulating. Kerry quickly found a fertility clinic that was willing to support her in making it happen and she picked a sperm donor with her three “must haves:” he needed to be Caucasian, with brown hair and blue eyes, hoping that the baby would look somewhat like her.

There were seven possible matches, and she narrowed it down to two, and ended up choosing the one who she discovered had a jovial personality.

Within three weeks she was pregnant!!!

Convinced she would have a girl, she decided on the name Grace. When she found out she was having a boy, she chose the name Grayson, who was born on Stepdad Scott’s, birthday.

What a blessing.

I love this story because it’s more proof that in spite of what eastern astrologers and western doctors say, or whatever misguided beliefs we have, we can take action in creating our own miracles!

On Saturday, Brian and I had the honor of officiating at their wedding on the cliffs of the Torrey Pines Gliderport, where Gabriel is the Flight Director, overlooking the Pacific Ocean. It was a breathtakingly beautiful summer day with more than 150 friends and family cheering them on.

And little adorable Grayson, who calls Gabriel “Daddy,” was the ring bearer.

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,

Arielle

P.S. If you are ready for marriage and you have a sincere desire to manifest your soulmate, please visit www.soulmatepassion44.com to hear a free 75-minute webinar.

Take More Vacations

When my sister Debbie was in the last days of her life, she whispered to me, “take more vacations.” I knew exactly what she meant. She had worked hard, too hard, most of her life and she had worn herself out.

Now, in these final moments, she was offering me some wisdom….

For the last several years I have followed her advice and have scheduled at least one vacation a year designed to restore and rejuvenate my body, mind, and spirit.

We recently returned from 10 days in Greece and Italy and I’ve never felt better.

We didn’t do any sightseeing. In fact, we didn’t do much of anything except take walks, sit on the beach, and eat amazing food.

Just sitting on the balcony of our hotel Santorini room, which overlooked the Caldera, a deep body of water caused by a volcano, was my favorite activity.

This spectacular view kept me in a state of deep gratitude for being alive. Breathing in the fresh air, absorbing the peaceful vibes…

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,

Arielle

P.S. If you are ready for marriage and you have a sincere desire to manifest your soulmate, please visit www.soulmatepassion44.com to hear a free 75-minute webinar.

The REAL Purpose of Marriage

Someone once said, “Men marry women with the hope they will never change. Women marry men with the hope they will change. Invariably, they’re both disappointed.”

If you’re marrying in the belief that it will make your life significantly better, then things probably aren’t great to begin with. Only you can make yourself happy and when you are happy, and you are with your soulmate/life partner, that is the icing on the cake.

That said, there are always ways to improve your relationship, reignite the fun and passion, and rekindle your commitment, especially when you understand the “real purpose of marriage.”

Oprah calls relationship expert, Harville Hendrix, “the marriage whisperer,” and he is one of my favorite love experts. Harville teaches that the real purpose of marriage is for each of us to heal our childhood wounds. He says that our brain has a built-in “mate-selector” and that we choose someone that has the playbook to push all of our buttons. And…

Harville explains that there will be times when their behavior replicates the worst of our early caregivers.

So the truth about a soulmate marriage is that it’s biggest purpose is for us to heal each other.

Yes, there will be plenty of blissful days and wonderful times and there will also be days where you really don’t like your soulmate at all…in fact you may even hate them temporarily. And this is normal.

And it doesn’t mean you don’t love them.

So, what is true love?

“True love is loving the person for what they love, who they are, for what they stand for. If you go into a marriage loving what you love, not what they love, that is not love. Real love is not finding someone to hold your hand and find common ground with; the institution of marriage is to push you out of your comfort zone, to lift you up above what you need, so you can provide what you’re needed for,” explains Rabbi Baruch Ezagui.

He says “marriage is the highest calling of mankind. It includes the marriage between body and soul, heaven and earth, spirit and matter, one human and another.“

When you are faced with challenging times in your marriage, first remember that this is normal, and then step into the bigger picture and provide what you are most needed for.

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,

Arielle

OMG – Where did 20 years go?

By the time you read this, Brian and I will be in Santorini celebrating our 20th wedding anniversary. It’s where we went on our honeymoon and decided it was time for another visit to this gorgeous paradise. I promise to share some photos when we return.

Today’s newsletter is #444 and that is significant because Brian and I met because of those numbers.

Let me explain.

When we met, Brian’s former business partner, Nick Bunick, had just written The Messengers. Simon and Schuster hired me to do the book tour, which led to Brian and I meeting. The book talked about Angels and much more, including the significance of the numbers 444. Nick claims that when you see these numbers, it’s a message to remind you that God loves you!

Nearly every day when the clock hits 4:44, Brian and I say “I love you” to each other.

Don’t be surprised if you start to notice 444 popping up around you.

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,

Arielle

P.S. If you are ready to manifest your soulmate, please visit www.soulmatepassion44.com to hear a free 75-minute webinar.