Shopping For The Perfect Husband (a funny story)

In her book The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands, Dr. Laura Schlesinger recounts a story one of her listeners found on the Internet entitled “Shopping for the Perfect Husband.” The tale is set in the “Perfect Husband-land” store, a five-story building where women can go to find their perfect match.   On each of […]

Is he the ONE? (Or still the ONE?)

It seems like nearly everyday someone is asking me, “How do I know if he is my soulmate?” It’s a valid question. Besides having a sense of “knowing” and feeling like you have known them forever, you must discern if they are a viable “life partner.” Simply having feelings of deep recognition is not enough for […]

Conscious Love – What It Is (and is not!)

I was on Facebook the other night and came upon a beautifully written essay on Conscious Love by Jenn Funk that I just HAD to share with you. Please enjoy! Love isn’t the hope or belief you have in a man’s ‘potential,’ the same man who insults you, runs away or raises his voice when he […]

New! What to do if the magic has faded

***************************** SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT! On December 29th, I’m releasing what I think is my best book ever on love and relationships: Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate: A Practical Guide To Happily Ever After Go to this link to learn how you can order your copy today and receive some really nice bonus gifts, too! ***************************** […]

Be A Love Philanthropist

One of my favorite lines from A Course In Miracles is:   “The only thing that can be lacking in any situation is that which you are not giving.”   I think of this often, especially when I am out of sorts….and then I quickly figure out that was is missing is: giving and receiving love.   […]

The Art of Detachment (my sad story…)

When manifesting a dream or desire, there is a Universal Law as important and potent as the Law of Attraction. It’s called the Law of Detachment. When we are emotionally attached to “making” our desire happen we set ourselves up for frustration and disappointment and simultaneously keep ourselves at a vibration that can “push away” […]

I Was a Lousy Wife (a confession)

Today I am in my 17th year of an amazing, deeply loving, fulfilling marriage to my soulmate Brian… and I almost blew it!   Soon after we got married, I made a horrifying discovery: I had no clue how to be a great wife. I was an excellent manifestor, and I was great at being […]

Are You Leaking Negative Energy and Turning Off Men?

Have you ever considered that the signals you send out (involuntarily) every day may be turning off the very men you’re living with or trying to attract?   My good friend and colleague, Marni Battista, calls this “negative energy.”   And it’s the #1 chemistry killing mistake that keeps men from asking you out, keeps […]

Fast Fix for Fear

A few months ago I was watching Grey’s Anatomy on TV and learned the most awesome thing! Here was the scene: Dr. Amelia Shepard was standing in the surgical suite, about to perform a groundbreaking 17-hour brain surgery on a colleague. She was scared out of her mind because if anything went wrong, her friend […]

5 Ways to Heal Your Broken Heart

My good friend and colleague, licensed psychotherapist Katherine Woodward Thomas, MA, MFT is like me – devoted to helping people find the love of their lives…   And in her work with thousands of women and men, Katherine has found that sometimes it’s a breakup that allows us to do just that.   She pioneered […]