New! What to do if the magic has faded
On December 29th, I’m releasing what I think is
my best book ever on love and relationships:
Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate:
A Practical Guide To Happily Ever After
Go to this link to learn how you can order your copy today
and receive some really nice bonus gifts, too!
Has the magic faded from your relationship?
Have you had your feelings hurt so often that you’re beginning to question why you’re even together?
When you met the man of your dreams, you had such aspirations for how your life would be together. Maybe you imagined living in an endless blissful state of romantic dinners, adventure-packed vacations, and daily affirmations of love.
But perhaps reality has not quite lined up with your expectations.
Sure, there’s many good moments, but there’s also bickering, snide comments and even occasional feelings of loneliness and rejection.
Wasn’t he supposed to be your soulmate?
Aren’t soulmates supposed to understand each other, support each other and know what the other needs to feel totally and completely loved and accepted??
I thought so, but I was wrong.
Before you begin to think you’ve made a horrible mistake and decide you want to break up, get divorced, move on, or end your search for your soulmate, I want to reveal something important about my own personal love story.
I also want to assure you that finding your soulmate and having good relationship skills are two completely different things. If you’re having challenges in love, there’s no reason to think you’ve ended up with the wrong person. There’s a way to get the magic back and turn your “mate” back into your “soulmate”, and you’ll find out how in a bit.
But first, my own tumultuous love story:
I’ve been married to my soulmate Brian for 17 years this year. It’s a deeply loving and fulfilling partnership today, but it wasn’t always that way! The first few years after we were married, I realized I had zero partnership skills.
After decades working as a successful publicist and entrepreneur, I had great “boss” skills, but that didn’t transfer too well in the marriage department. The end result of this was a lot of unintentional insults, tiresome bickering and frustration between Brian and me.
I would make plans for the both of us…and end up angering Brian because he wanted to be consulted first.
I would get caught up in emails and my own thoughts and made Brian feel unheard and unloved because I couldn’t look him in the eye when he spoke to me.
I thought I was being pro-active, and he thought I was overbearing.
I thought I was being creative and productive, and he thought I was distracted and a workaholic.
These are just a couple small examples of the kind of misunderstandings that were threatening the happiness of our marriage.
Having gotten married at the age of 44, I had become very used to having things my way, all the time. And it never occurred to me that Brian would want anything different from what I wanted. It never occurred to me that we wouldn’t always see things “eye to eye”.
After all, weren’t we soulmates?
Weren’t we destined to easily and effortlessly live “happily ever after?”
Brian already seemed to naturally know how to make me feel heard, loved and respected.
It became obvious that I was the one who needed to discover new, better ways to listen, to communicate, to be considerate, and most importantly, to become a team player.
Sure, I had figured out how to experience the once-in-a-lifetime joy of finding my soulmate, but now I had to learn how to make my relationship thrive and grow into a joyous and sacred union.
I had to take personal responsibility for the success and longevity of my relationship.
Brian and I attended workshops and seminars, but what made the biggest difference was that I spent more that 130 hours interviewing the world’s top love and relationship experts for Evolving Wisdom’s Art of Love Series that I co-created and hosted for several years – many of them top researchers and social scientists who virtually never do interviews such as these…
Many of these experts became friends, and spent hours answering my endless questions and forever changing my understanding of love and how to make it last.
The result of these years of study (and personally road testing the various techniques and strategies to a happy marriage), are that Brian and I have grown closer and closer and are enjoying the best years of our marriage so far.
I knew that I wasn’t the only one going through these challenges, and I knew I absolutely had to share everything I learned so that others in the same situation could know that there’s HOPE for “happily ever after.”
This is why I decided to write down everything I learned and mastered in the last decade or so. The result is my latest (and in my opinion, most important) book:
Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate:
A Practical Guide To Happily Ever After
This comprehensive book reveals and explores the best advice, techniques and tips on how to handle everything from everyday squabbles and misunderstandings to the bigger problems that can ruin love and affection.
It will show you WHY you may be butting heads or unintentionally hurting each other, and give you practical, easy strategies that will ease tension and bring you and your partner closer than ever.
You’ll learn valuable tools such as:
- How to ask for what you want and make him feel like a hero while you feel loved, adored and cherished (actual scripts and words that will work their magic every time).
- What you can say to your man that will make him fall even crazier in love with you, and it’s probably already something you’re already thinking – you just need to express it the right way.
- What he wants even more than sex (when you read this you may just fall out of your chair. I know I just about did!)
- How our desire to be “right” is getting in the way of being loved, and what to do about it and feel happy and loved instead.
- Why your partner maybe isn’t great at gift-giving or expressing his affection or being tender with touch – and why you shouldn’t worry about the depth of his love for you. How to understand and reciprocate his “love language”.
- How a shift in perception can positively alter the course of your relationship and even the direction of your entire life.
- The different types of soulmates, and how to know if your partner is the one with the expiration date.
- How to get the spark back and kick up the fun, starting tonight.
- And much more!
If you’re starting to feel disappointed and disillusioned about your soulmate relationship, don’t despair! All you need is the tools and strategies you’ll learn in my book, Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate: A Practical Guide To Happily Ever Afterto turn it all around.
Starting today, you can begin to enjoy the kind of easy, blissful union you always knew was possible, and always hoped you’d have with the love of your life.
Because I consider you, dear reader, one of my friends and I have a special offer for you:
When you order the book through this offer, you will instantly receive a free bonus package that includes special gifts from resources I consider to be among the “best of the best:”
Five part Video series (instant access) featuring:
“How Woman Can Get Their Needs and Desires Met by Their Mate”
Dr. Pepper Schwartz
“How Sex Can Save Your Life”
Iyanla Van Zant
“The best way to apologize and how to forgive “
Gay & Katie Hendricks
“You’re Too Fat” (and other hard conversations to have)
Dr. Laura Berman
“How to Affair Proof Your Relationship”
Plus there are two great bonus audios (on sex and intimacy) and The Everything Book, an e-Book for you & your mate to fill out and exchange that shares juicy details of what you both most want!
Now here is the offer for YOU only (I’m not making this offer to anyone who is not on my newsletter list).
If you order the book via one of the online bookstores and you ALSO visit or call your favorite bookstore and order a hardcover of the book (all versions of the book will be available on December 29th), I personally guarantee that if you read the book and do not find it valuable and engaging, I will personally refund the cost of the hardcover book (the one that you bought at your favorite local bookstore) and you can keep the book.
All you would have to do it scan your paper receipt and send it to me in the weeks between January 15 – January 29th and I will send you the refund via PayPal. That is how certain I am of what this book can do for you.
As a lifelong book lover and lover of bookstores, it’s really important to me that we continue to buy books both online and especially through bookstores. So, if you want to turn YOUR mate into your soulmate, or dramatically improve all of your relationships (because, really, this stuff works with everyone in your life) AND help me have the best birthday ever by getting this baby out to the world, please click here to order one copy of Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate online and get your instant access to the bonuses, and then please, please visit or call your favorite bookstore to order the hardcover.
Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,
P.S. I truly believe the information I’ve been blessed to share in my new book can help make anyone take their relationship go from ho-hum to happy, happy to ecstatic, and ecstatic to EXALTED – for life. And I’m so sure of that, I’m putting my money where my mouse is… haha.
Order online and get the great extra bonuses from some amazing colleagues and friends of mine here!
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