What’s Your Love Language?

After I got married I found out there is something so much more important than being “right.” It’s being “loved.” I discovered that when I was committed to being “right,” it always meant making someone else “wrong.” As you know, feeling wrong does not go well with feeling loved. So many of us like to […]

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A faster Way to Manifest Your Desires

Like most people, I want what I want, when I want it and I want it now. And the word “want” is a surefire way not to get it. Huh? Wanting implies that something is missing. It implies lack. And when you are in the state of wanting, all the Universe can give you is […]

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Don’t Fall for the BS about this!

There is an axiom that’s been circulating in the personal development world for years now that says we are the average of the 5 people we spend the most time with (attributed to Jim Rohn and others). And I say its Bull Sh$t. (and some have a $100k a year program to make sure you […]

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Don’t Blame The Victim

A big part of having success with the Law of Attraction is understanding that “thoughts are things” and that our feelings, thoughts, beliefs help to co-create our reality. Other factors that also influence our lives include karma, divine timing, desire, destiny, free will and that omnipresent reality of “shit happens.” When something really bad happens […]

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Love, Attraction, & Gray Hair!

Gray hair getting you down? Here’s some science based good news! Whether you are dating or partnered, according to a joint study between psychologists from the University of St. Andrews and the University of Liverpool, a more mature appearance is exactly what some men find the most attractive. (“Mature” is code for gray hair in […]

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Celebrate A Soulful 4th of July

Happy Summer! This is my favorite time of year…I love the warm weather, the long days, and spectacular sunsets. Not to mention the BBQ’s, juicy array of peaches, plums, and golden cherries to eat! Are you ready to create some fun on the 4th of July? If you don’t already have plans, here are a […]

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The Husband Super Store

I once heard a story called Shopping for the Perfect Husband. The tale is set in the “Perfect Husband” super store, a five-story building where women go to find their perfect match. On each of the five floors there are men with various qualities. The main rule was that once you reached any given floor, […]

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Happy Money and LOVE

You may already know this…. the #1 source of conflict in marriages and the biggest cause of divorce is money. Why? According to my dear friend, Ken Honda, author of Happy Money: The Japanese Art of Making Peace with Your Money, it doesn’t have to be this way. Ken is a bestselling author (over 7 […]

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Spiritual and Highly Sensitive People Have the Hardest Time in Love

Although this seems very counter-intuitive, I have found the highly sensitive and spiritual people (for now I will call you HSP’s) have the hardest time finding love and keeping love, especially women. One of the biggest issues around this I have observed is that HSP’s are deeply feeling, not only their own feelings but the […]

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Manifesting Love: The Priority List

You’ve heard the cliché, “success leaves a trail of breadcrumbs,” and having met and interviewed tons of smart, super-successful women who went from alone and dateless to happily married to their conscious soulmate, I have compiled a list (in no particular order) of the qualities they brought forward in themselves to make it happen. They […]

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