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The Upside of Expectations

Posted by Oct 27, 2010 , , , , Leave a Comment

Last June, I taught a Soulmate Secret weekend workshop in Dublin, Ireland ­a beautiful, magical part of the world. Yesterday I received this email from one of my students, Brendan, a widower, who was longing for a new soulmate. He shared with me his success story:

Dear Arielle,

Good news!

After a fruitless search for a partner for five years, I was fortunate to attend your seminar in Dublin early this year. Besides being won over by your lovely personality and genuine concern for helping everyone achieve happiness, I also took on board the simple techniques that you showed us are proven to work.

*I made my wish list of 19 qualities of my perfect soulmate.

*I stuck it up on the wall beside my pillow and enclosed it inside a big heart.

*I visualized what it would be like to live with this person.

*I threw my wishes out to the universe and expected to get a good result.

Two months later I was approached on a dating website by the woman of my dreams from Poltava in the Ukraine. She ticked off every one of my 19 ideal qualities for my soulmate, even though she spoke no English and I spoke no Russian!! The online site provided a daily translation service. An email sent by me before 12 noon got a reply in English that evening. A very efficient service!!

Nadya had also made a wish list of the qualities she expected in her perfect soulmate, and I matched them. Nine weeks later I met her in Poltava and proposed marriage within two days. We are getting married on the 30th April next year.

She said that she knew we would get married even before we met!!

Many thanks for your inspiration!

Brendan

One of the most powerful things Brendan did is this: “I threw my wishes out to the universe and expected to get a good result”. As you know, but it bears repeating, The Law of Attraction states that we draw to us the people and experiences that match our state of BEING, Brendan “expected” a good result and that is exactly what he got.

What are you expecting?

If it is hard for you to FEEL your way into your future wedding, be sure to check out The Soul Mate Kit, you will find countless exercises to help you get over the obstacles and find your soulmate.

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love

Living As If: A Reminder

Posted by Sep 22, 2010 , , , Leave a Comment

The period of time when you are waiting for your soulmate to make his or her presence known to you gives you an important opportunity for self-reflection.

Consider this: If your soulmate had the ability to see your life right now, would you (and they) be happy with what they were observing?

Begin to live your life today as if they are already here. This is the secret to activating the Law of Attraction!

Chances are, if you really knew your soulmate was on his or her way to you, you would hold yourself to a higher standard than you do now ­ so why wait for them to arrive to put these things in place?

Think not only about what you do on a given day but also the way that you represent yourself to others. Remember, you will attract someone who energetically “matches” the degree of esteem that you hold towards yourself.

If there are behaviors you’re engaged in that you wouldn’t want your future lover to see, stop them. This might mean giving up obsessing over your ex-lover or having casual sex with your neighbor.

“Living As If” can be fun, easy and simple. Before I met Brian I was buying him birthday cards, and anniversary cards and “just because I love you” cards. (I really like the cards at www.soulebrate.com) I also bought some tickets to concerts and plays that I wanted to attend.

Get creative! One woman I know just finished a “boudoir photo session” and is making an album of sensual photos to hand over to her soulmate when he walks through the door.

Remember, the process of attracting your soulmate is one of magnetism. When you make the choice to live as if your soulmate is already a part of your life, you send out an irresistible signal to the Universe that you are ready now. Not a signal that you’ll be ready someday ­ when you work less and your house is clean and you’ve lost five pounds!

Remember the famous line in the 1989 movie, Field of Dreams starring Kevin Costner? “If you build it, they will come.” Living as if is like flipping on a light switch inside your heart. This is the light your beloved will use to navigate his or her way to your door.

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love