How To Trust Your Intuition

It took me years to learn to trust my intuition.  Sometimes it was hard to distinguish between my “wishful thinking” and a real intuitive “hit.”


imagesMy friend and intuitive extraordinaire, Colette Baron Reid, shared with me a very simple but powerful technique to use by yourself when you need to access your own intuition. She calls it the YES OR NO technique.


To begin you say your name out loud.  For example: “My name is Arielle.”


Then notice how that feels in your body. When I say “My name is Arielle” I get this very clear “solid” feeling that YES this is absolutely true.


Then make the same statement but with a false name, such as “My name is Violet.”


You will notice that this feels both confusing and wrong.


The next step is to ask the question you most want the answer to…. if you are trying to figure out if the person you have been dating for awhile is the “one,”  or if a potential opportunity is a good thing try this:


“Is ____the one for me?”


Or you can say,


“Is it in my highest and best good to pursue _____ with ________?”


Rev-arms-outIf you feel contracted around your chest area, this is a sign that your body is giving you a “no.” If you are hoping that this person is the right person and you find that you are getting a NO and you see that you are trying to re-work the question to get a “yes” and you are feeling obsessed, or disappointed in how your body is responding, this is how you know the difference between intuition and wishful thinking.


To know the difference between intuition and wishful thinking, pay attention to how you feel and what you’re trying to do with the information. If you’re letting it “be” whatever it is, then you’re getting intuitive guidance. If you’re trying to direct or manipulate the action or outcome with a particular agenda, or if you are afraid or feeling fearful about what you are feeling, then you might be in the realm of wishful thinking. It may take a little practice but developing your inner radar will serve you well.


And, if you want to really dive into this, check out Colette’s Daily Oracle Card Reading Course. This is a 3-Lesson online course to help you get in touch with the best adviser you’ll ever have – Spirit. It teaches you the fundamentals of dialoguing with Spirit on a daily basis to help you adjust your actions or interpretations of events, people, and overall challenges. Amazing resource!


Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,


Got Faith?

Lately I’ve been thinking a lot about faith and trust… and asking myself, how much of itdo I really have? And, what does it take to have 100% faith and trust that my life is unfolding exactly as it should, whether or not, I choose to apply my “free will” to things?

As someone who has had ongoing success implementing the Law of Attraction, I sometimes wonder if my desires arise because part of me already knows what is coming, or…do I influence what is coming because I create the conditions for it to arise?

Maybe it’s a little of both!

Here’s the part I know for sure: once I drop my desire into the Universal soup, it’s time to surrender and trust that what I have asked for IS ALREADY MINE. So, wherever you are in your manifesting process….don’t forget this piece of the pie.

Mother Nature knows how to do her job. You wouldn’t go pulling on the leaves of your tomato plant at 3:00am saying to it “grow faster, grow faster” now would you?

Here are a few of my favorite quotes on this topic:

“Faith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase.” Martin Luther King Jr.

“Faith is to believe what you do not see; the reward of this faith is to see what you believe.” Saint Augustine

“Faith is believing that the outcome will be what it should be, no matter what it is.” Colette Baron-Reid

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,


Starts tomorrow 5:30pm… PT Marianne Williamson & me

Have I shared with you lately how much I love my soulmate?

Brian is one of the most loving and easiest people on the planet to be with and what you may not know about him is the incredible amount of nurturing and support he provides for me when I am in crazy work mode.

For the past several months I have been fully immersed in the creation of a big new project… it’s been very creative, fun, time-consuming, and super-inspiring.

And, knowing that Brian is always there to encourage me, feed me, hug me, and rub my shoulders makes it so much easier.

Brian is a daily reminder of how great life can be when you share it with your soulmate which is why my dream, my mission, is to make sure that everyone who desires a soulmate has everything they need to make it happen.

Here’s what I know for SURE:
Everyone (especially you) is deserving of soulmate love and there are many possible soulmates out there (they are looking for you!).

If you are willing to give a little time, energy, intention and attention to your love life (and many of you already have, but maybe make time for just a little bit more), love will be yours!

Beginning tomorrow night, I will be hosting a NO COST online series, Attract Your Soulmate Now, featuring the world’s leading experts on love and relationships for 9 days to share their love manifestation secrets and techniques in ONE powerful place.

Join me for the LIVE KICK OFF call at 5:30pmPT, when Marianne Williamson and I launch this “Virtual Seminar.”

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Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses!


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