My Intuition Failed – ugh!

I love to be right.


There, I’ve said it out loud.


It’s true. Being right makes me happy, and conversely being wrong is upsetting for me.


unknownLast week I was the most wrong I’ve ever been when my intuition was 100% off. Like most of the country, I thought Hillary Clinton was certain to be our next President.


I felt it in every cell of my body.


When I tuned into her on the Sunday before Election Day, I could “feel” her jubilation.


I could feel her excitement at becoming the first woman President.


It was so real for me.


I don’t claim to be a psychic, but when I “know” stuff, I know it 100% and for most of my life, I have been able to totally trust my intuition.


So, when Trump won, I was in double shock.


Shock that he would now be the leader of the free world (no need for a political debate here, lets just leave it at he and I don’t agree on a lot of major issues), but perhaps the bigger shock for me was that my intuition was so completely off.


For the past several days, I have been trying to figure out “why” I missed this.


And, now I believe that quite simply, I wasn’t supposed to know…


For whatever reason, being a part of the collective shock (for the 50%+` of us that were “with her”) is/was part of my destiny.


It’s been humbling.


Here’s what I still believe:


That the Universe has my back.


That good will come from this.


That the Law of Attraction works and I will continue to focus and feel my desires manifesting and will simultaneously understand that when it “appears” that things haven’t gone my way, ultimately it’s for a higher good and someday it will all make sense.


Here’s what I now know:


It’s time to step up and find more, better ways, to spread more love in the world.


Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,



Where Is Your Soulmate?

Nearly every day I get two kinds of messages from readers of The Soulmate Secret. The first kind is a big thank you email with news about how they have successfully manifested their soulmate using the steps outline in The Soulmate Secret and my Soulmate Kit.

The second type of message is a polite complaint about how they have been using some of the steps for 3 or 6 or 12 months but have not yet met their soulmate and they want to know if what else they could/should be doing.

For those folks I almost always have the same answer: please remember the role that Divine Timing plays in all of life.

While you may feel that you are absolutely ready for a soulmate right now, the Universe, Karma, God, Goddess, the forces of Good, your angels, devas, and ancestors (or whoever and whatever you believe in) may have picked out the most perfect person for you and it’s just not TIME for you two to get together. (yet).

Can you be patient? Can you love your life right now? (And yourself?) Can you find new ways to savor the waiting? Can you dream up new ways to give more love to the friends, family, and co-workers already surrounding you? Have you truly released and healed any barriers to love within yourself or is there some one you have yet to forgive? (Hint: maybe yourself?)

Here’s one thing I can promise you: when you do finally meet your soulmate you will inevitably discover that it was the perfect time for both of you and you will also know that he or she was worth the wait!

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