LOVE: Have It Your Way
The other night I was talking to friend and dating expert, Evan Marc Katz, about why some women have so much trouble with finding love. Not surprisingly, we both had the exact same point of view and it came down to one word: softness.One of the soulmate “blockers” some women have (especially busy, successful women over 40) is an unconsciousfear that when their soulmate shows up, he will suppress their freedom and take up all of their time. Especially if they grew up in a traditional home from the 1950’s, 60’s or 70’s where Dad went off to work, and Mom was a housewife catering to Dad’s needs and his wishes always came first!
Many of todays busy, single women are really enjoying their lives. Most have kids, even grandkids, and businesses, friends, adventure travel, hobbies and while they crave companionship and would love a soulmate, in the back on their mind, they have a belief that they will have to give up – a lot – to make room for someone new.
Here’s the good news: you get to choose. You can have it YOUR way!
If you want a soulmate but would prefer to live apart, and see each other twice a week until you retire, or only get together on weekends, then focus on that lifestyle.
You are more powerful than you know, so get clear on what your heart most desires and needs in your soulmate relationship and then go out and make it happen.
You can have it your way!
Wishing you love, laughter & magical kisses,
Arielle
P.S. And if you feel you have emotional bocks to love and need help with that, don’t miss this free online workshop, hosted by my dear friend, licensed psychotherapist and bestselling author Katherine Woodward Thomas, MA, MFT.
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