Buddy System for Love

Dear Soulmate Manifesters,

When we open to our most vulnerable feelings, needs and the desire to share our life with another (a most human desire), we may feel scared, intimidated, or maybe even hopeless. This is why I believe it’s really useful to find the perfect buddy to walk this path with you. We all want to feel supported, nurtured and understood and this is precisely the value of a buddy.

Your buddy may be someone who is also in the process of manifesting a soulmate or it can be someone who is looking for support in another area of their life. It can be a man or a woman, a close friend or someone relatively new to your life. The most important thing is that it’s someone you trust, feel safe with, and someone who can hold the vision of BIG LOVE for you, especially on the days when your faith may waver.

If the perfect buddy doesn’t immediately come to mind, ask yourself these questions:

-Who do I know that really wants to see me happy and in love?

-Does this person have my best interests at heart?

-Do I trust them?

-Would they take the time to work through the steps in The Soulmate Secret with me? (remember those steps work for manifesting more than just a soulmate)

If you still can’t figure out a great buddy, then ask that one be sent to you. Each day say a simple prayer of gratitude:

Dear God, Goddess and All that Is,
I give thanks that my perfect buddy has arrived in my life and is supporting my dreams with me.
And so it is.

I can’t imagine my life without my buddy, Peggy. Three mornings each weekwe get on the phone and share our hopes, dreams, wishes and projects for the week. We support each other and when necessary, hold each other accountable to accomplish what we say we are planning to do.

Today, give yourself the gift of a buddy.

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love

You Don’t Have to Be Perfect to Attract a Soulmate

Dear Soulmate Manifesters,

My friend Bob Grant, has been a therapist and relationship coach for the past 17 years. Recently we were talking about the misconception by so many women (and some men) that they have to be “perfect” before they can attract a mate. Bob has a LOT to say about this and I thought I would share it with you:


You Don’t Have to Be Perfect to Attract a Man…

Perfect Is Overrated…I promise. Men don’t need a woman to be flawless to be attracted to her.

After years of listening to women in my private practice, many women seem to think that men expect nothing less than perfection. If you were to visit some popular men’s websites such as; (www.askmen.com) or (www.maximum.com) you would certainly think that unless a woman is both highly attractive and incredibly accommodating, that men have no interest. This is not really accurate. At least not in the way you might think.

I often illustrate this to women by asking this question:

“If you had a choice between two men and everything about them was exactly the same, with the exception of one being worth millions and one being poor, who would you prefer? Would you select the wealthy one, or the one who was poor?”

Answer: If they were equal in all other aspects, most women state that they would choose the wealthy gentleman. I mean, why not if everything else is equal?

Now when men hear this some are likely to say, “That’s right, all a woman cares about is a guy who makes a lot of money.” In fact, that conclusion would be incorrect. A man would be wrong to assume that just because a woman likes the characteristic of a man with money that she cannot love a man unless he is wealthy. In fact, most women I speak with tell me this, “It isn’t that he has to make a certain amount, but I would like to know that he has the potential to make enough for me to feel comfortable.” In fact, most women are willing and/or expect to help out financially.

This same standard applies to men. If given the choice between a woman whom they believe is very attractive, or one who appears to take no interest in her appearance, they will choose the attractive one. This doesn’t mean that they will only consider a woman who is striking. Take a look at most married men and you will see that plenty of women who would not be considered “perfect” have husbands who choose to marry them. Why would this be? The answer is that the quality of being authentic is actually more potent in the arena of love than perfection. Being authentic causes a woman to act in such a manner that is enchanting.

This woman is well aware that she has issues (don’t we all) and yet, she understands the balance between improving herself and being comfortable with where she is currently in her life. She doesn’t work hard at convincing others (i.e. men) that she is perfect. Rather she is very attune to the needs of her heart, and takes full responsibility for meeting those needs. Men find such a woman adorable.

Here’s an exercise that will illustrate my point. The next time you are in a crowded area take a moment and casually look around at the men. Take at least 5 minutes and you will find that the men are all looking at the women. ALL OF THE WOMEN!
They will be looking at the tall ones, short ones, skinny ones, curvy ones and on and on and on…. Don’t take my word for it. Try it and see for yourself.

You will discover that as a woman, you have exactly what men are looking for. .

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The 2010: The Destination of Your Dreams

Dear Soulmate Manifesters,

As we begin this New Year and new decade, I have made my BIG list for 2010 and shared it with my mastermind buddy, Peggy McColl. We are going to continue our practice of speaking three mornings each week to support each other in our goals and dreams. To inspire you to have your best year ever, I thought I would share with you my sister’s Huffington Post blog on how to make 2010 the Destination of Your Dreams.


The 2010: The Destination of Your Dreams
by Debbie Ford

It’s so easy to make promises about the year ahead. You will follow your diet, be more financially responsible, be kinder to your spouse, spend more time at the gym…But, for most, the promises you make today will be empty dreams six months from now. So let’s examine this. I would suggest this happens because real change doesn’t occur when you just want something or wish for another reality. Real change happens when you feel genuinely inspired, turned on by possibility and unwilling to settle for anything less. It happens when you commit with all of yourself to a new way of life, to a new future. So how do you do this?

To feel inspired and lit up and to make room for optimism, enthusiasm, and lasting change, you must lighten your emotional load by addressing your past issues, your emotional blocks, your negative beliefs, your feelings of unworthiness and any infantile desires that drive you to repeatedly head off in a direction counter to your dreams. If you drop your commitments, it is not because you want to be seen as a quitter or a loser but because unconsciously you are more committed to an outdated self — an old identity that feels comfortable and safe even though it might have stopped serving you years ago. Often, psychological laziness will have you switch your life over to autopilot and fall asleep at the wheel rather than stay awake to what will fulfill your heart’s deepest desires and your soul’s purpose.

On this eve of a new year, a very fertile time to look over your past and commit to a new future, you can ask these simple questions to unload some old baggage and steer your life in the direction of a brilliant and thrilling future — the ride of your life.

1) What are your deepest desires for this new year?

2) What are you willing to give up to get them? What habits, limiting beliefs, unhealthy relationships or situations?

3) When did you become unwilling to do whatever it takes to have what you want?

4) What cravings or unmet needs will drive you away from your desired destination?

5) What structure of support will you need to ensure this new future?

6) Who could you count on to be your co-pilot to ensure that you will neither fall short of the runway nor overshoot your desired outcome? Who will help you stay awake?

If you wish to fly to new heights, begin by setting your sights on a destination you can reach and then create a flight plan, a map that will be your guide. And if at any time you don’t feel like following your flight path, stop, take a deep breath, call forth your vision for your future, then pick up your phone, dial your co-pilot and ask them to remind you that veering off your route really isn’t worth the pain of repeating the past. Veering off will only leave you in the same repetitive pattern of wanting, wishing, fantasizing, and then feeling intensely disappointed when you land at a destination other than the phenomenal future that awaits you.

So today, YOU have the power to choose the destination of your dreams, create a flight plan and stick to it. So gather your courage, your strength and your commitment and get onboard, making 2010 the most inspiring year of your life. Join Debbie for a free 21-Day Consciousness Cleanse program, a daily boost, on Oprah.com This amazing 21-Day course will help you clear out any old, negative patterns that may have been stopping you from manifesting the love of your life.


Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle

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My favorite birthday gifts of all time (I now gift to you)

Dear Soulmate Manifesters,

I thought I would share with you the best gifts I have ever received.

1) The gift of self-care and self-love. It took many years of therapy, self-help workshops, prayer, meditation and WILLINGNESS, but learning to love myself enough to take care of all of me – physically, emotionally and spiritually is the best gift ever. Receiving this gift, that I gave myself, is what allowed me to be ready to manifest Brian.

2) The gift of not taking anything personally. Big thanks to don Miguel Ruiz for writing The Four Agreements, which taught me to never take anything personally. Miguel says that “nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.” Amen.

3) Learning to be quiet. I have learned that just because I have something to say (an opinion, judgment, point of view) doesn’t necessarily mean I need to share it. Sometimes by just staying quiet and letting others speak up is more “right” for me than trying to “be right” about something.

4) Choosing love over fear.When I think back to earlier years (especially in my 20’s and 30’s) when I would obsess about things and spin into a black hole of worry, I wish I knew then what I know now: that I and I alone control my thoughts and behaviors and that I always have a choice of choosing love over fear. Whew. Glad I finally got that gift.

I have two birthday wishes for this year: (1) that I continue to have even bigger and better opportunities to share my truth with all who wish to hear it: Big love is possible for everyone, at every age, if you are willing to put in a little time, attention and intention into your desires. (2) a trip to India in the Fall.

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle

p.s. if you go to a gas station that has TV screens by the pump, look for me during the month of January as a guest expert on Pump Top TV.

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Solo for the Holidays?

Dear Soulmate Manifesters,

If you are single this holiday season, I’d like to offer you my three-step guide for making it a super-special time of year. First, for those of you who are sad, depressed, angry, or resigned to the thought you will always be alone, let me offer you a very short exercise.

1) Get out the egg timer and set it for 5 minutes.

2) For 5 minutes close your eyes and dive deep into the feelings you are feeling…don’t resist on any level, just allow yourself too embrace the full (possibly unpleasant) experience of your sadness, anger, doubt, etc. Look and see where in your body the feelings reside, feel them and then see if you can feel them even more intensely.

3) Breathe deeply during this process and with each exhale, breathe out the emotion while silently saying to yourself thank you and goodbye. Chances are before the 5 minutes are up, all or most of these feelings will have dissipated. This is because you have stopped “resisting” feeling those feelings and you allowed yourself to be fully present with what was true for you in that moment.

Second: Now, get out your journal and make a list of three things you can accomplish between now and the end of the year that will make someone else’s life better. This can be anything from taking an elderly neighbor shopping, to serving food at a shelter, to a variety of random acts of kindness.

My favorite line from A Course In Miracles is this: “The only thing that can be lacking in any situation is that which you are not giving.” Want more love? Give love. You get the idea.

Finally, decide to create a memento of this holiday season that you will GIVE to your soulmate someday. It can be a special letter, photographs, a scrap-book or, my favorite, get out your video camera and make a short film that shows where you went and what you did for Holiday 2009 that you will want to share with him or her. This is an excellent way to “live as-if.”

Please email me at soulmatesecret@nullyahoo.com and let me know what you decided to do to make this a joyous holiday.

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love

Tiger Woods – The Opportunity

Over the weekend we attended a holiday party and the big topic of conversation was the Tiger Woods fiasco. I noticed that the happily married men were very sympathetic towards Elin Woods and thought Tiger deserves whatever nightmare he has created for himself. A few of the guys (two who were over 45 and never married and one married guy who is a player) expressed a lot of sympathy for Tiger and thought that he shouldn’t be held responsible because “everyone knows that women always throw themselves at famous athletes and of course they can’t be expected to resist the temptation.” Without intending to, these men revealed their personal position on fidelity. If you are dating someone, discussing the Tiger situation provides a relevant opportunity to find out your partner’s beliefs on this very important topic and opens the door to ask questions that might generally be uncomfortable to broach. (Better to find out sooner than later if your thoughts about fidelity are aligned!)

My brilliant sister, Debbie Ford, wrote a powerful blog for the Huffington Post. I thought you would find it fascinating so I have included here for you:


The Mask of Tiger Woods

Well, here we are in another media frenzy about our latest fallen angel – the one and only Tiger Woods. As yet another legend bites the dust by exposing his bad behavior, many of us are shocked and appalled while others are falling deeper into resignation about the imaginary faithful husband. And then for some others, there is a bit of glee. There are those who are just plain grateful that Tiger Woods isn’t the superhuman that he has been made out to be. For some, Tiger’s imperfections become a gigantic exhale of relief. Those who seek to find their happiness in the fantasy that one day they will become the perfect person can now see they are finally off the proverbial hook. As the women continue to come forward for their few minutes of fame and glory in this tabloid-frenzied society that would rather focus on the another person’s flaws rather than do anything about their own, we are once again trapped in a conversation that judges another’s behavior rather than working diligently to clean up our own. And even though we’re in an era when most people don’t have the time to focus on what’s important to them, they do somehow find the time to focus on what will be meaningless in just a few days or months.

I could go on and on about why Tiger’s behavior was predictable. If you take the time to read Why Good People Do Bad Things: How to Stop Being Your Own Worst Enemy and study the masks of the human being, you will indeed understand why Tiger could not maintain his “I’m the proverbial Nice Guy Overachiever” act for his entire life. How could he or anyone continually push down all of his unmet needs and ordinary human impulses that are built into our everyday human wiring? Can you imagine being that good? Can you imagine having to win at everything, to perform perfectly every day for the rest of your life? How stressful it would be for a mere mortal to carry this burden.

So now Tiger joins the ranks of Bill Clinton, David Letterman and other infamous cheaters. Tiger will never be the same. Tiger’s life as we have all known it before that fateful car crash is dead, something for the archives. And now a new life can emerge — hopefully a life where he can live a more authentic expression, where he can experience more intimacy with his family, friends, and peers so that he doesn’t have to seek false connections with women he hardly knows and surely can’t trust. As most cheaters will admit, it’s a quick fix, a temporary high, that they could have just as easily gotten from a shot of heroin or a couple of martinis mixed with the newest edition of Playboy. Hopefully, as Tiger gets over the shock of being exposed, he will find a safe guide to support him in going inside himself to find out who he really is and what he really wants now that he no longer has the right to don the mask of the Nice Guy Overachiever.

And it’s not just Tiger’s life that has changed. So has ours. Tiger has now shown all those who still believe in the prince on the white horse that the prince is flawed, imperfect, and human and that when the mask of our human persona gets too tight, when there is no more room to grow or breathe, it blows itself up so that it can recreate itself anew. We can no longer look at Tiger with the same awe of his divine perfection. Our jealousy can melt away. For all of us who are caught up in the Tiger drama, my hope is that we will take back all that we have projected on to him all these years. It is useful to remember the old Buddhist trick. Imagine Tiger standing in front of you and now point your finger out at him and say aloud “You are stupid” or “careless” or “an idiot” or “__________” — whatever quality you are seeing in him, fill in the blank. Now look down at your hand. One finger is pointing out at him. Where are the other three fingers pointing? That’s right. Back at you. And as we were continually reminded by our friends growing up, “You spot it, you got it!


For more information on the masks and Why Good People Do Bad Things, go to www.debbieford.com

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love

Let God Bring Your Soulmate To You!

My book, Hot Chocolate for The Mystical Lover: 101 True Stories of Soulmates Brought Together By Divine Intervention, was published in 2001. Yesterday I received a message on Facebook from a reader in Norway who shared his “soulmate success” story as a result of having read this book. His name is Andiran, and he said:

“I was more than 40 and had given up hope about true love. I read your book, did the “Letter to God” exercise and put the letter under my pillow. Just a few months later my Pearl arrived. Now we are happily married with children, and we have traveled the world for 4 years, and have been married for 8 years. We have lived in India and found a past incarnation in Spain. Or son Leopold is “made in England.” Thanks a lot for the gift you gave me – a happy life!! We now live on a small organic farm in the mountains in Norway, with pristine nature, clean water and many animals. Our specialty is conscious parenting. We are philosophers, metaphysicians and vegetarians.”

Andiran’s letter is a perfect reminder about just how EASY the manifestation process can be. He simply did one easy prayer and then put it under his pillow. Are you willing for your process to be easy as well? The prayer can be found on page 167 of The Soulmate Secret: Manifest the Love of Your Life with the Law of Attraction and for those of you who don’t have the book, you can read it below.


Dear One,
Everyone longs to give themselves completely to someone, to have a deep soul relationship with another, to be loved thoroughly and exclusively, but I say “No.” Not until you are satisfied, fulfilled and content with being alone, with giving yourself totally and unreservedly to Me, will you be ready to have the intensely personal and unique relationship that I have planned for you. You will never be united with anyone or anything else until you are united with Me. I want you to stop planning, stop wishing, and start allowing Me to give you the most thrilling plan in existence – one that you cannot even imagine. I want you to have the best. Please, allow Me to bring it to you.

You must keep watching Me expecting the greatest of things. Keep experiencing the satisfaction that I AM. Keep listening and learning the things that I will tell you. Just wait. That’s all. Don’t be anxious. Don’t worry. Don’t look around at the things others have or that I have given them. Don’t look at the things you think you want. Just keep looking up to Me or you will miss what I want to show you. And then, when you are ready, I will surprise you with a love far more wonderful than any you have dreamed of.

You see, until you are ready and until the one I have for you is ready (I am working even at this moment to have you both ready at the same time), until you are both satisfied exclusively with Me and the life I have prepared for you, you won’t be able to experience the love that exemplifies your relationship with Me. This is Perfect Love.

And Dear One, I want you to have this most wonderful love. I want to see in the flesh a picture of your relationship with Me, and to enjoy materially and concretely the everlasting union of beauty, perfection, and love that I offer. Know that I love you utterly. Believe it and be satisfied.
Love,
God


What one thing are you willing to do today towards manifesting your soulmate?

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love

Love Advice About Mr. Right

I recently interviewed Lisa Steadman about her upcoming book If He’s Not The One, Who Is?: What Went Wrong – and What It Takes to Find Mr. Right (January 18, 2010) and her transformative 8 week teleclass based on the book. Lisa’s message is one of hope, inspiration, and empowerment for singles who are done with past dating drama, disaster, and disappointment, and ready to create happier and healthier dating futures.

We talked about how we both met our husbands when we started making different choices, shifted our beliefs, and started acting “as if” to get a better result. Lisa’s book is all about how women can celebrate being single so that they can fall in love with their lives and magnetically attract men who are interesting, available, and ready for a committed relationship.

AF: What do you think keeps single women stuck and unable to meet great men?
LS: Because our beliefs create our reality, when you believe there are no good men out there, you won’t find any. If you think the love of your life got away, and that you will never meet anybody as interesting and amazing as your ex, you’re right. You won’t. See, our subconscious is so committed to being right, it’s going to show us how right it is – by delivering those disappointing results we believe to be true. However, when you shift your thinking, you realize that it’s better to be happy than right. And in order to be happy, it’s time to let go of the idea that your happily ever after is in your past, and celebrate the fact that it’s in your future with someone new.

AF: How can single women learn from past relationships without feeling like failures or losers at love?
LS: For any woman out there who’s feeling bad about herself because she’s had her fair share of relationships and breakups, it’s once again time to shift your thinking. We’re not relationship failures. Our love lives have been karmically eventful. Thank God! If we never got our heart broken, if we never risked big and lost big, if we stayed in the first relationship we ever got into regardless of compatibility and shared values, would we learn anything? Life is messy, and the sooner we celebrate that – and the lessons that go along with it – the sooner we’ll fall madly in love with ourselves and our lives and that’s the key to attracting great men and eventually the love of our lives.

AF: In your book, you make the important distinction between dating disappointment and actual heartbreak. Can you elaborate?
LS: I work with so many smart, successful, savvy women who often mistake disappointment on the dating scene for heartbreak. The problem is that they end up wasting valuable time and energy nursing what they think is a broken heart, but is actually just a bruised ego. When you embrace the idea that dating disappointment isn’t heartbreak and instead is just a natural reaction to unmet expectations, you can create more realistic expectations, cut down on wasted time and energy, and meet Mr. Next more quickly, eventually calling in Mr. Right.

AF: What are some tell tale signs women can look out for to differentiate between Mr. Next and Mr. Right?
LS: On the road to happily ever after, you’ll meet and date lots of Mr. Nexts. Your job is to get to know these guys for who they are, and clearly see how they match up with your relationship requirements. Mr. Next can be fun, funny, and fabulous, but as soon as he reveals himself to be someone who doesn’t match up with your long term goals and requirements, you must let go and move on. Now, Mr. Right can also be fun, funny, and fabulous, AND he also takes an interest in you, celebrates who you are, and shares your common values. When you meet him, you’ll know. And that’s fabulous!

AF: Where can people go to find out more about you, your upcoming book and your teleclass?
LS: Because my book isn’t out until January, and my teleclass doesn’t start until February, I wanted to offer your subscribers something special for the holidays. Right now, when your subscribers visit ifhesnottheonewhois.com, they’ll get three exciting FREE bonuses:

1. A FREE quiz to help you decide if you know the difference between Mr. Next and Mr. Right

2. A FREE 60 minute audio introduction to my book and program If He’s Not The One, Who Is?: What Went Wrong – and What It Takes to Find Mr. Right

3. A FREE preview chapter from If He’s Not The One, Who Is?: What Went Wrong – and What It Takes to Find Mr. Right entitled Fairytales Do Come True (And Other Lies Your Mother Told You)

Please visit: www.ifhesnottheonewhois.com

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love

Words: Love, Life, and Magic!

I’ve been thinking about words a lot this week. The words I want to say, the words I wish I had said, the words I want to hear, the words I say to myself, the words I want to write….I have been obsessed by words. There is so much beauty and power in words, especially song lyrics, so I thought I would share with you one of my favorite songs by Sting:

“The Book Of My Life”
by Sting

Let me watch by the fire and remember my days
And it may be a trick of the firelight
But the flickering pages that trouble my sight
Is a book I’m afraid to write

It’s the book of my days, it’s the book of my life
And it’s cut like a fruit on the blade of a knife
And it’s all there to see as the section reveals
There’s some sorrow in every life

If it reads like a puzzle, a wandering maze
Then I won’t understand ’til the end of my days
I’m still forced to remember,
Remember the words of my life

There are promises broken and promises kept
Angry words that were spoken, when I should have wept
There’s a chapter of secrets, and words to confess
If I lose everything that I possess
There’s a chapter on loss and a ghost who won’t die
There’s a chapter on love where the ink’s never dry
There are sentences served in a prison I built out of lies.

Though the pages are numbered
I can’t see where they lead
For the end is a mystery no-one can read
In the book of my life

There’s a chapter on fathers a chapter on sons
There are pages of conflicts that nobody won
And the battles you lost and your bitter defeat,
There’s a page where we fail to meet

There are tales of good fortune that couldn’t be planned
There’s a chapter on god that I don’t understand
There’s a promise of Heaven and Hell but I’m damned if I see

Though the pages are numbered
I can’t see where they lead
For the end is a mystery no-one can read
In the book of my life

Now the daylight’s returning
And if one sentence is true
All these pages are burning
And all that’s left is you

Though the pages are numbered
I can’t see where they lead
For the end is a mystery no-one can read
In the book of my life

I find these lyrics so haunting and beautiful… so, I leave you with this question: are you writing your chapter on love? What does it say and too whom?

Your thoughts, intentions and words have power and magic in them. Choose them wisely.

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love

Two Soulmates Share Their Secrets

I recently connected with a very special soulmate couple, Dr. Lara Fernandez & Johnny, who I’ve been hearing about for quite some time. Johnny and I were on a radio show together and I just loved hearing his approach to love and life and the love of his life, Lara. Johnny and Dr. Lara are dedicated to helping conscious, spiritual women prepare themselves in mind, body, spirit, and heart for the soulmate of their dreams. They are co-founders of LifeLaunch Training, home of the LoveLaunch Weekend Intensive. Last week I did a little mini-interview with them and here’s what I learned about them:

Q: I heard that you two have said that the Law of Attraction will NOT help you manifest your soulmate….what do you mean?

J& L: We totally believe in the Law of Attraction but it’s not the only answer. We have found that a lot of people need to do more of the inner work. It’s what we call “raising your vibration to being a soulmate.” This is how we believe you magnetize yours soulmate to you. You become more of who you really ARE rather than who you have been conditioned to be by society, our family and traditional media.

Q:How did you two meet?

Johnny’s story: Lara magnetized me from New York to San Francisco area 11 years ago. When I moved it was because I had a strong feeling that I need to be here in California. I came with no job, no friends just a knowing. Once I committed to moving, a job fell in my lap. I am a recovering smart guy (and a lawyer) and I began looking at what would be different for me in relationship since I had just come through a messy divorce. I found some mentors who taught me about spirituality and energy and who showed me how grow into the emotionally mature man I am today. One year after moving to California Lara and I met through www.match.com . A few months after that we moved into together and Lara shared with me how she magnetized me to her.

Lara’s story: I had been married and divorced at a young age. For years I had several six-month relationships. After the last excruciating breakup I decided to take a break from dating and began reading a lot of books on loving myself. I met an amazing coach who helped me do a lot of “inner work.” She was always there to remind me, who I really am. I was a chiropractor but not making much money and often complained that my soulmate wouldn’t love me because I wasn’t making a big salary.

She taught me that my soulmate would love me no matter what – that was a completely new concept for me!

I was sick and tired of being lonely and hanging out with other unhappy single women. I realized that I needed to commit to either finding my soulmate or becoming the cat lady. I chose to be commited to manifesting Big Love. I began writing letters to my soulmate. I began to feel like he was nearby. For the next two years I was focused on manifesting Big Love. During this time I created a soulmate wish list, a love altar, a vision board, and spent a lot of time meditating and connecting with nature.

Then within one week five people suggested I join www.match.com. I took that as a sign and even though I didn’t own a computer at the time, I went to a friend’s house and got online. I put up a profile (without a photo!) and two weeks later met Johnny! The rest is history.

Today, Lara & Johnny share their love and relationship magic through newsletters and a great workshop called the Life Launch Weekend. If you are ready to take the next step to removing the blocks in your love life, you can check them out at: www.launchyourlifenow.com

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,

Arielle

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