The Love You Seek Is Already Yours

Manifesting becomes effortless when you have a clear intention that resonates in every cell of your body.

This week allow yourself to remember why it is that you desire a soulmate.

Consider how you, and your life, will be more enriched when you are sharing your daily life with your beloved.

What is that you have to offer your soulmate?

What is it that you most want to share with them?

What is it that you most seek from the relationship?

As you ponder these questions allow yourself to have an experience of present moment awareness where you can feel what it feels like to be sharing your life, right now, with your soulmate.

Make this a daily practice. As you continue to focus your intention and attention on your heart’s desire, knowing that what you’ve asked for is ALREADY yours, you magnetize it to you.

If you’d like more information on how to really understand and execute this mindset or would love more support around the concept of manifesting your heart’s desire, please listen in on this free recording.

During this recording, I revealed the 3 KEYS to using the same simple, secret techniques I used to manifest my soulmate and husband Brian so that you can manifest YOUR true love.

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I will show you how to manifest true love and magnetize your soulmate into your life!

If it is hard for you to FEEL your way into your future wedding, be sure to check out The Soul Mate Kit, you will find countless exercises to help you get over the obstacles and find your soulmate.

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Arielle Recommends: The Shadow Effect

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A Mystical Process For Clues To Your Soulmate

When my nephew Beau was a little boy (he’s now 16!) he would often announce to those around him that he was “busy playing with his imagination.” This was his way of telling us not to disturb him.

We can all learn something from Beau: playing with your imagination is a powerful way to activate the Law of Attraction. Here’s a fun way to bring some new juice to your soulmate manifestation process:

Take 15 minutes and find a place where you can be completely undisturbed. Find a comfortable place to sit and close your eyes.

Breathe deeply and slowly for a minute or two. Let your shoulders drop, let the tension in your body drift away and then thank yourself for taking this time to have a little fun.

I want you to use your imagination to go into the future.

First pick a year and a season for instance you could use Winter 2012 or whatever time frame comes to you.

Now imagine that it is a Saturday morning. You are asleep but you can observe yourself.

What do the sheets look like? What are you wearing? What time of morning is it?

You are about to wake up (Don’t open your eyes yet) but you know that your soulmate is sleeping next to you with his or her back toward you.

Allow yourself to simply feel the presence of another in the bed with you.

What are you feeling? Where in your body are you feeling it?

Savor these feelings as you continue to breathe slowly.

Your soulmate is sound asleep, but you are beginning to wake up.

Now, with your imagination, begin to remember the plans the two of you have for the weekend. You can’t see the face of your beloved, simply use your imagination to remember one of the events for the weekend that you are looking forward to.

As you see this event, give it details. What will you be wearing? Where will you two be going? What is the weather like? What will be the most memorable part of the event?

This can be any part of the weekend ­ from breakfast in bed, to lunch on the patio, to a walk on the beach, a hike in the woods, a bike ride, grocery shopping, painting the spare room. Whatever event your imagination serves up to you is just perfect.

As you are observing you & your beloved (you can either see the back of their head of feel them behind you but no need to try and see their face) in this event, pick out three details to remember: maybe a color of something around you, a scent in the air, and most importantly an enjoyable feeling.

Now notice where in your body that feeling is located and take a moment to spread that feeling throughout your body. Continue to breathe deeply and slowly and see yourself in this event closing your eyes.

It’s now time to come back to the present moment.

Feel your body sitting in the chair, feel your feet on the ground.

Notice the temperature of the room.

And when you are ready, open your eyes.

You have played with your imagination to reach into your future. The important thing to take away from this exercise is the feelings you experienced. You can tap into them at any time as a reminder that your soulmate exists.

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Arielle Recommends: Where Does A Mom Turn For Refreshment?

If you are a mom or love a mom, you know it is a mother’s heart that is the source of the limitless, unconditional love and inner strength required for the job.

Yet life brings many experiences – disappointment, heartache, trauma, pain – that when unhealed, disconnect mom from her heart, diminishing her ability to access the love that is always there. And in this disconnect, mom gets angry, frustrated, sad and often feels buried in guilt.

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My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love

After Glow of The Royal Wedding

Last Friday Brian and I woke up around 6:15 am in the morning and immediately turned on the television just in time to see “The Kiss.”

We were fortunate to catch the start of a 40-minute recap of the Royal Wedding.

(For those of you who have been sitting in a cave meditating, Prince William and Kate married in a fairytale wedding at Westminster Abbey surrounded by royalty, family, friends, and heads of state.)

There was so much about this event that I just loved:

Her dress was stunning, elegant and absolute perfection.

The setting was spectacular and the hats perched atop the stylish heads were so amusing!

I loved the intimate looks of love exchanged between bride and groom, and of course the carriage ride was straight out of a fairytale.

And, how fun was it to see them in the Aston-Martin convertible as they left Buckingham Palace?

I was also deeply touched that in lieu of wedding gifts, they requested that donations be made to a long list of charities and good causes.

All in all, a beautifully orchestrated wedding.

As I watched the day unfold, I remember feeling immense joy and inspiration knowing that I was aligned with billions of other fellow humans who were also basking in the love and possibility of love that this marriage offers.

I believe Will & Kate are soulmates who are deeply connected and committed to each other. During the past eight years they have matured and grown together and I predict they will be role models for their generation (and generations to come).

At a time on the planet that is filled with so much bad news, devastation, and cynicism, this uplifting wedding offered a wonderful reminder that by sharing and observing the wedding rituals and celebrating a marriage, we can all tap into the power of love. Thanks to the Prince and his Princess!

Want to try a Magical Manifesting Tool?  Click Here for the Love Mandala and magnetize yourself to Love: Send My Mandala

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love

My Guilty Pleasure (I Confess!)

When I need to unwind and relax, one of my favorite reality TV shows is SAY YES TO THE DRESS on TLC.

Even though we are about to celebrate our 13th wedding anniversary and I’m certainly not in need of a wedding gown, I just love watching this show. Maybe it’s because I never did try on a “proper” wedding dress.

As an older bride (I was 44), I didn’t want anything traditional or too trendy. So, I skipped the bridal boutiques and easily found two separate pieces at a little shop named Morgane Le Fay where I found a long white silk slip and a sheer tunic. I put them together and voila, I said yes to my dress.

Why do I watch this show? Two good reasons: Often by the time I do get in front of the TV it’s late and there are mostly infomercials on and I find this show to be infinitely amusing. From the brides-to-be and their often too-opinionated friends and family, personalities range from charming to highly annoying. And, you can say the same about the sales staff. These gals are true New Yorkers, assertive, sassy and they know their inventory of 1700 dresses.

I am always surprised by how expensive the dresses are! Having spent a mere $750 on my dress, I often wonder, “does anyone really need one that costs $5,000- $20,000?” But, as a salesman at Tiffany’s once said to me: “Madam, it’s not about need, it’s about want.”

For those of you in the midst of manifesting a soulmate to marry, it’s perfectly ok to also have a “wish list” around what kind of wedding your heart desires.

If it feels right, imagine yourself on your wedding day. Tune into how you feel inside your body.

Are you joyful? Excited? Blissed out? Nervous?

Now, imagine the setting. (for right now, only focus on the details  of the event, not “the One.”)

Is it daytime or night? Are you indoors or outdoors? Are there lots of people or just a handful?

The details are fun to think about aren’t they?

Here’s the most important part of this exercise: As you dream up this special day, allow yourself to feel, as if it’s really happening right now, all the delicious emotions of the event. Dive deep and luxuriate in the feelings knowing that you are one step closer to the day you say “I do.”

If it is hard for you to FEEL your way into your future wedding, be sure to check out The Soul Mate Kit, you will find countless exercises to help you get over the obstacles and find your soulmate.

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love

Pain vs. Suffering in Love

I have known the excruciating pain of heartbreak and lately I’ve been thinking a lot about the reality and concept of suffering and how the words “pain and suffering” are so often linked together. Having experienced a lot of both in my life, here’s what I’ve learned so far: Pain is unavoidable, but do we have a choice about suffering?

Years ago, after a particularly bad breakup, I remember feeling as if a 747 jumbo jet had crash-landed in the middle of my chest. The pain was nearly unbearable and at times I felt like I would die. Crushed and hopeless, I wondered how I would survive.

I was indeed in pain and I was suffering.

Strange as it might sound, I am beyond grateful for that incident. It paved the way for the life I have today. Through that experience, I became clear about the traits and qualities I wanted in a soulmate and the level of commitment I desired in a relationship. The pain was real and unavoidable, but I now see that the suffering part might have been optional.

If (and I know this is a big IF), I had been able to understand that I was in the heart of a learning curve about love and relationships, and had I known that the pain would eventually dissipate and ultimately lead me to my greatest joy, then I think the suffering would have been a choice (at least to some degree).

I share this with you in the spirit of shining a light on whatever painful areas of your life you are now experiencing. You may want to write in your journal and begin a dialogue with your pain and see if you can find the future gifts it will bring you. Then ask the part of you that is suffering how and where you can find relief and even…..entertain the possibility of excitement about the future you can co-create with the Universe.

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My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love

Beginners Mind: Secret to Manifesting a Soulmate

What does it take to manifest the love of your life?

I’ve heard from first-time brides (at 49 and older!), from busy entrepreneurs whose 80-hour-a-week work schedules left little time for romance, and from divorcees and widowers who were convinced that the opportunity for true love had long passed them by.

Those who have successfully manifested their soulmates did so by finding a healthy balance between intending and allowing; between doing and being.

Not only did they do the necessary manifestation techniques but they also cultivated a state of what the Buddhists call “Beginner’s Mind”. They carried out the exercises and rituals with an attitude of openness, eagerness, and an absence of preconceptions.

Even if their hearts were still aching from a past breakup or their present circumstances were less than ideal, they didn’t allow themselves to fall into the common trap of thinking that they’d already done and tried everything, and therefore nothing new would work for them. They stayed open to the possibilities and remained hopeful, not defeated.

Becoming a successful manifestor requires a certain level of emotional maturity. Great manifestors have learned the art of managing their thoughts and emotions so that even when doubt, fear or other limiting feelings pop up, they are not swept into a spiral of negativity. Developing this kind of mental discipline requires us to make a deliberate choice to focus our attention on what we desire rather than on what we don’t want.

For example, whenever I catch myself dwelling in a negative or unpleasant thought or feeling, I say to myself “cancel-cancel,” and I then intentionally create a new vision for myself. Sometimes this simple shift in perception is all I need, and other times I reach into my toolkit of emotional release techniques and dedicate five or ten minutes to working through my mini-issue so that my creative energies stay aligned with the outcome I desire.

You too must recognize the powerful influence your thoughts and feelings have and do your best to keep them positive. I know; the process of magnetizing your soulmate can get discouraging at times. But if you’re approaching it from the mindset of “it’s been a year and it still hasn’t happened,” you’re living in the reality of what’s missing.

The universe simply can’t add more love to your life when you’re focused on the love you don’t have.

If you can shift your focus to magnetizing your soulmate rather than “looking” for him or her; and if you can adjust your emotional state from impatience to savoring the waiting, love will blossom in its own time, and in colors and fragrances that will both surprise and delight you.

Your soulmate is on the way to you from wherever he or she is right now. The details are not yours to coordinate. Your job is simply to love yourself, enjoy your life as it unfolds in each moment, hold a clear intention of the love you are manifesting, and have faith in the unseen forces that are even now guiding the fulfillment of your dream.

Want to try a Magical Manifesting Tool?  Click Here for the Love Mandala and magnetize yourself to Love: Send My Mandala

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love

Do You Believe in Fated Love?

If you’ve read my book, “The Soulmate Secret” you may remember that right after I met Brian I had my Vedic astrologer look at both of our charts. He said that our relationship is “the most fated he’d ever seen,” and he predicted we would get married. Eventually he even selected our wedding dates. (We had three weddings!)

In case you were wondering, what the heck is Vedic astrology? It’s the ancient system of astrology from India and it’s AMAZING for looking at relationships and compatibility. In fact, it’s still used by the majority of the Hindu population to arrange marriages.

They do what I did, call their astrologer to see if a marriage candidate is a good “match” or not. For years I’ve been consulting a friend of mine, Carol Allen. She’s both a Vedic astrologer and a relationship coach. She combines the best “out of this world” advice with the most cutting-edge “real world” advice in a great newsletter you can sign up for at the attached link.

If you’re thinking to yourself, “astrology is silly…” you haven’t seen Vedic astrology. Her newsletter is 90% relationship advice (because even Carol will tell you, it’s more important what you DO in love, than what the stars are doing), and I highly recommend it.

Carol offers an amazing compatibility report called, “The Right Man Report” that will to tell you if your relationships are “fated” and a good match, and what to do if they’re not…the report is only $19.97 (and it¹s 100% money-back guaranteed). You deserve all the support and help you can get on your journey to find and keep lasting love, and Carol can help.

Check it out by visiting CAROL ALLEN

Want to try a Magical Manifesting Tool?  Click Here for the Love Mandala and magnetize yourself to Love: Send My Mandala

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love

Where Is Your Soulmate?

Nearly every day I get two kinds of messages from readers of The Soulmate Secret. The first kind is a big thank you email with news about how they have successfully manifested their soulmate using the steps outline in The Soulmate Secret and my Soulmate Kit.

The second type of message is a polite complaint about how they have been using some of the steps for 3 or 6 or 12 months but have not yet met their soulmate and they want to know if what else they could/should be doing.

For those folks I almost always have the same answer: please remember the role that Divine Timing plays in all of life.

While you may feel that you are absolutely ready for a soulmate right now, the Universe, Karma, God, Goddess, the forces of Good, your angels, devas, and ancestors (or whoever and whatever you believe in) may have picked out the most perfect person for you and it’s just not TIME for you two to get together. (yet).

Can you be patient? Can you love your life right now? (And yourself?) Can you find new ways to savor the waiting? Can you dream up new ways to give more love to the friends, family, and co-workers already surrounding you? Have you truly released and healed any barriers to love within yourself or is there some one you have yet to forgive? (Hint: maybe yourself?)

Here’s one thing I can promise you: when you do finally meet your soulmate you will inevitably discover that it was the perfect time for both of you and you will also know that he or she was worth the wait!

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love