Today I am sending all of you a virtual pair of Big Girl panties as you embark on a New Year – a year to be filled with love, laughter and the meeting of your soulmate/lifepartner.
I want you to close your eyes and imagine you are putting them on now.
The purpose of these Big Girl panties is to be a constant reminder that you deserve Big Love.
The fact that you have the desire for this is PROOF of its fulfillment.
Your soulmate/lifepartner is out there seeking you!
It is your job to be open, ready, available and VISIBLE so you can find each other. And, you can make this process FUN!!!!
You do not get to know in advance where he/she is right now or how they will come in to your life (and even if I told you, you wouldn’t believe me).
For those of you who are anxious, nervous, or fearful about the process, feel the fear and do it anyway.
Dating is essential to success and you need to accept that it’s likely you will go on some bad and disappointing dates, that you maybe ghosted, stood up, etc.
If you choose to make up a story about this, that somehow you are bad, wrong, not enough, or whatever, you are choosing to be a victim. Stop it. When these things happen (and it’s likely they will) know that you have dodged a bullet.
Pay close attention to behavior as opposed to what someone says, they should be in alignment.
Protect your privacy and be careful. If you have expressed yourself about certain things and they decide to pressure you in spite of that, this is a RED FLAG.
You are seeking a lifetime partner who is respectful. Never forget that.
Be patient. Love at first sight is extremely rare. It takes time to get to really know someone. Give yourself (and them) the gift of time.
When on a date, remember to keep looking for what’s right. If you are looking for what’s wrong, you are guaranteed to find fault. This does not mean you ignore glaring warning signs, it simply means you accentuate the positive.
There will come a day when you will be SO HAPPY that you put in the time, energy, intention, attention and money to manifest your beloved.
P.S. Your soulmate is looking for you, are you ready to be found? It’s never been easier to manifest a soulmate on planet Earth than it is right now. The two things that are most likely getting in your way are limiting beliefs and visibility. I have fast, easy ways to fix these and so much more (and it works for all ages from 28 to 88!)!
Join me for one of my upcoming Soulmate Secret Manifestation Weekends:
One is at the fabulous, luxurious 1440 Multiversity, near San Jose, CA February 7-9 and the other is at one of my favorite spots on this planet Esalen in Big Sur, CA, April 24 – 26.
These workshops go way beyond the book and include my newest and latest
Let me guide you out into the arms of your beloved.
For more details please visit: https://www.arielleford.com/events/
And, if you are ready to begin manifesting today, check out my online Course with Dr. Claire Zammit at The Love Codes.