What Do Men Want?

What do men want? That’s a big question and one that I have been researching for years. In fact, when my next book comes out next January, I will be unveiling my take on this topic as well.

I recently came across Kate, who has great information and a story about what men want. If you are looking to gain insight into the mind of a man, this is worth checking out.

Below is the start of her wisdom and if you want more, you can click on the link at the end for a video that goes deeper. (…and in full disclosure, she does have a $37 product to sell with the full scoop of what she has to teach on this topic.)

Kate says:

Having a man close to you is a wonderful feeling…

  • The warmth of his embrace…
  • The smell of his skin…
  • The safety and comfort when you’re near him…

And one of the most frustrating things a woman can feel is the suspicion that you might have accidentally pushed him away…

That you may have even scared a good man off for good.

Well, the truth is this (WARNING – I’m not going to sugar-coat this): The reason he doesn’t want you or desire you is simply because you never made him feel like you really “GET” him.

imagesYou Gotta Show Him You GET Him!

Let me explain…

Most women think it’s enough to make herself look appealing by fixing her hair, makeup, and clothes. The usual “peacocking” stuff that captures his eye. The thought goes that, if you make yourself LOOK good enough, he’ll desire you and fall in love with you. But this is backwards. And it feels “desperate” to men.

YES, you absolutely do need to be appealing to the eye (and that does NOT mean you need to look like a supermodel or have backbreaking boobs.) There is no question that this will initiate interest. HOWEVER… What he REALLY needs to feel is that you UNDERSTAND him as a MAN…. And you’d be VERY surprised how easy it is to send a guy the wrong signal and make him think you don’t get him AT ALL.

For example: A lot of women pretend to understand a man in order to pry open his heart. But it backfires on her when she doesn’t do it the right way. Like when she pretends to be interested in his hobbies or sports or television shows, but it’s just her faking “good behavior.” You know, that “getting to know you” pretending that both men and women sometimes do.

QUICK SECRET: Men And Women Have Developed a Keen Radar For BS!

Most human conversations (these days, anyway) tend to have the feel of: “Mmm hmmm. Mmm hmmm. Just waiting for my turn to speak.”

To be fair, we all get a little nervous on dates. And we want to yak it up and make a good impression. But sometimes we gotta drop the whole “Facebook culture” thing and not need to broadcast ourselves or our lives.  SO when a woman pretends (even if she’s really sure she’s putting up a good act of interest), an alarm goes off in his head when he figures it out (and believe me, he DOES) – and then slams the door to his love on you.

It can happen on the first date – or the umpteenth… There’s no statute of limitations here. You have to show him that you not only understand MEN – but the unique things about HIM as a man.

  • Do you know WHY men brag? (Hint: This presentation will explain that whole “egotistical braggart” thing some guys do.)
  • Do you know what the sign of a man’s interest is that you’re probably missing? (Yup, it’s the presentation, too…)
  • Do you know how to make him feel like a man, and not just a possible meal ticket? (That’s a real concern for a lot of guys.)

So, we men know when a woman “GETS” us – and is on our team – and when it’s just a trick to get us to dig her. But if you show him the “Secret Signal” he’s looking for – he instantly melts for you. If you show him this Signal, you can have just about any man spellbound – IRRESISTIBLY desiring you. (It’s almost like cheating.) Oh, and if you think that the “Secret Signal” men are looking for is SEX – that’s NOT it!

TIP: the “worst” mistake you can make is to sleep with him too quickly just because you think he might “move on” if you don’t…

Let me explain…

I just got off the phone with Rebecca – a client, who’s now a close friend of mine. After losing her husband to another woman, at the age of 39, well – she’s falling back in love, and talking about a new baby. Now, if you had seen Rebecca just 3 months ago at the mall, where they had an argument so loud and scary that the police had to escort them out (no joke)… You would NEVER have thought this was possible. But she pulled it off… I gotta hand it to her.

You see, what Rebecca discovered was the ONE thing that men desire most of all from women. And if you think it’s that same three letter word that starts with S and ends with X….NOPE. Not that at all.

Again, so many women assume that this is what men want, and ALL they want. It’s such a well-known and accepted fact about men that it must be true… right?

Actually, no.

SECRET TIP: What Do Men Want?

I’ll give you a little hint about what he needs – It’s called APPRECIATION. Men THRIVE on appreciation. In fact, he wants to feel this more than he wants to feel love from you.

Why? Because it’s one of the signals that tells him he’s doing things RIGHT. It’s the ONE way he knows he’s making you happy, when you appreciate him. Appreciation is the male form of LOVE!  It’s also one of the reasons he falls in love in the first place. But, inevitably, the appreciation starts to wane. And then the distance creeps in….He seems distant or hard to reach.

OR – if you’re just going out on a first date with him, but things fizzle – and you never hear from him again. What happened? Chances are, you missed showing him THIS secret signal.

Here – let me show you how to stop this from ever happening again…

If you’d like to know what this Secret Signal is that makes men desire you uncontrollably, I’d like you to watch this new video presentation. And you’ll also discover something incredibly exciting – a NEW way for you to unlock the secrets of the male mind. Don’t let something interrupt you – Go Here NOW!

FYI, the video is about a half hour and you can start and stop it whenever you wish.

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,


God’s Cosmic Joke On Men and Women…

I’m constantly amazed at how little men and women understand each other… and at how much needless pain and suffering that causes.

Our differences are downright comical – as though God is playing a cosmic joke on all of us.

Don’t believe me?

Here’s what I mean…

Did you know that the more upset a woman is, the more she needs to talk about it? But that the more upset a man is, the less he wants to? (Doesn’t that explain a lot?)

Did you know that when women feel stressed out, they will typically reach out to others? But when men feel stressed out they mostly want to be left alone?

Did you know that women communicate with an average of over 20,000 words and sounds a day, but men use only about 7,000? (Yup – he really is out of words at the end of the day…)

And did you know that if you look at the results of research studies from many branches of knowledge (psychology, sociology, anthropology, neuroscience), they all find that women’s core primary need is connection, while men’s is competition?

Do you see a little, er, problem with each of these examples?

Me, too…

Sadly, they leave many of us baffled. And vowing that we’d rather “call the whole thing off.”

Which is why it’s so helpful to understand what’s really going on, and that it’s not personal. But once we women get past the theories, philosophies and research results, it’s so helpful to know just what to do at critical moments when you’re dealing with a real, live man.

How should you behave when you first meet a guy?

Is it okay to approach, or should you wait to see if he’s interested?

What do you do on first dates? Second dates? And when is it okay to sleep with him?

And once you’re seeing him regularly, how can you be sure he’ll stick around if you want him to?

For answers to such questions, I like to go “straight to the horse’s mouth.”

That’s right – I like to learn from men.

My good friend, Carol Allen, (Vedic astrologer and relationship coach), agrees. Her favorite thing is learning about men from men, too. But not just any men. Carol likes finding out what men want from men who’ve made it their life’s mission to understand other men.

So she sat down with eight of the world’s leading male relationship experts and interviewed them at length about what men are thinking, and what attracts them and wows them in a woman (and what makes them want to commit!), for a program called, “What Men Want.”

What she learned from these amazing men (all of whom are authors, and many of whom have worked with thousands – even hundreds of thousands – of men!) forever changed her understanding of and appreciation for men.

You see, when you know how to give a man what he wants, you’ll get what you want.

And a soulmate relationship ensues.

Here is just a small sampling of the golden nuggets that come from these incredible men:

  • The men said they were THRILLED when a woman made the first move, and that many men DO NOT love the chase as they’ve been hurt or rejected a lot.
  • If you make men feel great about themselves, and that you truly care about them, they’ll WANT to commit. Being needy or clingy, bossy or pushy are the top reasons men withdraw.
  • Thousands of men surveyed said what they want MOST from us in bed is an emotional connection.
  • All of the experts insist that men want to fall in love as much as women do.
  • Despite what you’ve heard, the men swear we SHOULDN’T be dating multiple guys if we really like one as many men find this a turn off, and become intimidated even if they’re strong and confident.

Carol is one of my favorite relationship experts, and the men she’s gathered are among my favorite men! (Seriously, these guys are all great and they really know their stuff – Evan Marc Katz, Christian Carter, David Wygant, Jonathon Aslay, Alex Allman, Larry Michel, Adam Gilad, Dr. Ali Binazir… there’s even a bonus interview with Mat Boggs.)

Don’t ever be needlessly baffled or hurt by a man again. Learn the secrets only men can tell you, and be amazed at how much better life can be. Learn more or order this special, love-life saving program here.

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses!