Overcoming Your LOVE FEARS

KWT 2010 HR PictureToday I want to share with a story about a woman who believed she would never manifest a soulmate.  Shelly, age 45, was born with a visible physical disability. Although she’d become a successful professional woman, she had resigned herself to never finding love, particularly as she was unable to do many of the normal day to day tasks we all take for granted such as brushing her hair each morning. For years, her mother had come to her apartment each morning to help her get ready for work. So Shelly had a lot of reasons as to why love was for other women and not for her. Yet, she was committed to overcoming her fear of love and her beliefs that her disability stood in the way of love, and is now married to the love of her life.

How did she do this?

By taking a stand for her love life and being willing to explore her emotional barriers to love. 

Part of Shelley’s process to break through her emotional barriers to love was to attend my dear friend, bestselling author Katherine Woodward Thomas, MA, MFT course, Calling in “The One.”  Katherine is now offering a free online seminar called:

Calling in “The One”: How to Identify and Release Your Hidden Barriers to Love and Become Magnetic to Your Soulmate.

Katherine’s work is known for helping women who doubt their own worthiness to receive love into their lives to have huge breakthroughs in the area of love. I’ve heard miracle after miracle of women who suffered from what felt like insurmountable obstacles to love for years…. women with low self esteem, women who were afraid to open up their hearts again after having been hurt in the past, women who had a terrible history of many bad relationships who have gone on to meet the love of their lives and create happy, healthy relationships after doing the Calling in “The One” process.

With so many relationship courses out there, it’s rare that I come across a finding-love program that that feels genuinely life-changing or has such an extraordinary track record of success.

Over the past 10 years, Katherine’s process has transformed the lives of thousands of people—including many who felt their romantic prospects were hopeless—turning their sad love lives into happily-married love stories!

So, whether you just need a little guidance, or fear you’re destined to be unlucky in love, Katherine can and will help you call in the kind of love you’re probably wondering if you’ll ever find.

The kind of love that will make your life better in every way.

You’ll need to tune in to her online seminar—at no charge—to discover her unique process, but here’s the essence of it:

If you yearn for true, lasting love with a soulmate, and you’ve found that after years of trying everything, nothing has worked, it may be that you need to identify andrelease your hidden inner-obstacles to love.

And you’ll be amazed by how quickly it can happen. Many people who have followed the Calling in “The One” process have called in their “One” within a matter weeks or months.

So if you’re committed to attracting and sustaining a powerful, loving and spiritual partnership, join Katherine for her online seminar at no charge

Register Now: Identify and Release Your Hidden Barriers
to Love & Become Magnetic to Your Soulmate

Again, there is no charge to attend the seminar.

By the way, Shelley’s husband Robert, says that helping his wife get dressed each morning is a joy for him. And he will also say, with a smile in his eyes, that he is particularly fond of brushing Shelly’s hair each day.

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle

P.S. Make sure you register even if you can’t attend live, so Katherine can send you the recording afterwards.

Register at no charge right here

P.P.S. If you know someone else you think might be ready to find their soulmate, you’re welcome to forward this invitation to them!

Get the Most from Your Single Days

Today’s wisdom is from my dear friend and bestselling author of Calling In the One, Katherine Woodward Thomas who shares how to get the most out of your remaining days as a single!

If you’ve been without a partner for a long time now, living the single life (you know, sleeping in the middle of the bed, falling asleep with the TV on, taking up all the space on the counter of the bathroom), then I’m here to tell you, “Don’t despair!”

These single years can be an extraordinary time of growth, where you can come home to the center of yourself, connect more deeply with your own feelings, needs and desires, discover your own authentic voice, and reflect upon the impact your beliefs and assumptions have had on your past relationships. And do this in a way that supports you to evolve your consciousness to a healthier place from which to create your next relationship.

In short, you actually have the time and the space right now to identify and release your internal barriers to loving partnership, and to prepare yourself to co-create a relationship that reflects the highest possibility you hold of deeply nourishing, inspired, happy, healthy love!

The kinds of shifts that are possible in these precious times of solitude will, however, require much of you. For in order to dramatically transform your relationship patterns, you must be willing to see clearly how you yourself co-created the old ones, as well as take responsibility to begin showing up in completely new ways.

As a mature adult, and not simply a child in a grown-up body who is holding others hostage to your old wounds from childhood.

As a person who is willing to let go of your solo dance in service to becoming ready to be a part of a couple.

And being willing to take full responsibility for those things within yourself that you’ve been blaming others for.

Becoming ready for authentic, happy, healthy love isn’t always easy. But it is always well worth the effort on the other side.

While setting an intention to find love is a good thing, it is really just the beginning of the journey. A reference point for all that you will be focused on transforming in yourself as you become the woman or man you would need to be in order to create a great relationship – one that would represent the fulfillment of your deepest longings.

When you have the courage to say yes to the possibility of love, it will often mean facing things about yourself you’ve not been willing to really look at until now. Such as the part of you that may not actually want to be in a committed relationship. Or maybe the part of you that doesn’t actually want to risk being sexual again. Or the part of you that doesn’t want anyone else’s wants and needs to interfere with getting your own tended to.

Using your single time as a time to prepare for love, often means a radical departure from your old, automatic, and probably pretty comfortable ways of doing things!

I’m talking about those patterns and habits that may identify who you think you are, such as “I am fiercely independent and never ask anyone for help,” or “I’m such a loving person that I always take care of other people before myself.”

Everything you think about yourself is suddenly suspect.

Is it really your nature to be that independent? Or is it a defense against being disappointed again like you were when you were a child? A creative and compensatory response to no one really ever being there for you in the way you needed when you were young?

Is it really loving to self abandon constantly, and to source your value from pleasing other people? Or is it a destructive pattern that keeps you invisible and makes it nearly impossible for you to ever fully commit yourself to someone else because you don’t trust that your authentic self will ever be taken care of?

This time alone grants you the ability to consciously challenge these old ways of seeing yourself, and to begin identifying and practicing new ways of showing up in relationship to yourself and others that are most likely outside of who we’ve known yourself to be.

So, I encourage you to use this time wisely. Moving into a place of stillness for a while and getting into a deeper relationship with yourself can be the most vital and wonderful preparation for receiving a beloved into your life.

If more people took advantage of this time alone, there would be a lot more healthy and happy unions we could point to as role models for what we ourselves are committed to creating.

It all comes down to really doing the work to transform yourself from the inside out while you are still single. To recreate yourself anew, and to focus on becoming the best potential partner you have the capacity to be . . .

So that when you do call in your wonderful, made-for-you soulmate, you’ll actually be worthy of their devotion and their love.

I hope you enjoyed this.  A big thank you to Katherine for sharing this with us.

For those of you who want to experience her genius first hand, there is a no-cost teleseminar coming up. Register here.

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle

P.S. Katherine Woodward Thomas, MA, MFT is the national bestselling author of Calling in “The One.” She is a licensed psychotherapist and creator of the Calling in “The One” 7-week Interactive Online Course, which has supported many thousands of people around the globe in finding their soulmate. She is a creative and inspired transformative educator with over 20 years experience designing and facilitating leading-edge seminars that support the emergence of life-altering shifts in consciousness both in individuals and in groups. Register here.

 

Broken Heart? This will make all the difference.

I’m writing about a very tender topic today…

Have you ever found yourself at the end of a relationship asking yourself, “How can I survive this?”

It can feel like you’re walking around with an open wound, right? Everything aches.
In fact it hurts just to be awake and sometimes there’s no end in sight.

And then you realize: it’s not just your relationship that broke… your heart broke too. You broke.

I’m sorry to bring this up. We’ve all been there and no one likes to talk about this side of love… but I want to help.  Because if you’re experiencing debilitating heartache right now, or you’re still dealing with the residue of past heartache…The pain you’re feeling doesn’t have to continue.

The good news here is that most breakup pain isn’t caused by ending your relationship. It’s created by the way you’ve been taught to end your relationships.

Unfortunately, most of us have been misled to “break apart” in devastating and destructive ways… and we make damaging and dangerous mistakes that end up creating more suffering, costing us our sanity and stealing our joy. They can even prevent future love!

That’s why so many of us spend 5… 10… 30 years trying to heal from past breakups.

And the crazy thing is, we think that we have to just suffer through it and just hope that eventually, someday, we’ll get over it and won’t hurt anymore. We’re left feeling powerless and hopeless to help ourselves in any really meaningful way.

Yet, now it’s time to learn a different way …

Discover the Art of Conscious Completion in This FREE Online Seminar

Rather than only focus on the pain and problem, this empowering online teleseminar will teach you the step by step process of how you can accelerate your healing by using the pain you are in to catalyze a whole new life.

Until we learn how to heal from these breakup mistakes and learn how to conscious complete our relationships in an entirely new way, we run the risk of remaining in pain and living lesser lives … making things worse for ourselves and our children or loved ones.

You are not alone. We all know what it’s like to hurt and suffer from a breakup. And I want to help you get out of any pain like that quickly!

And that’s why I’m writing this email today… to share with you an empowering training from licensed psychotherapist and national bestselling author of Calling in “The One,” Katherine Woodward Thomas.

This FREE Online Seminar will deliver you an entirely new way to approach the end of love.

Katherine will equip you with a powerful, proven step by step process to help you avoid the hellacious damage so often associated with breaking up… as well as show you how to heal any damage you may have suffered in the past.

Learn How to Avoid (or heal from!) the 3 Breakup Mistakes that Cause Suffering, Steal Joy & Prevent Future Love:

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