Wanna Be Crazy In Love?

While it’s true that I believe that the state of “being in love” is the socially acceptable form of insanity, it’s also one of the greatest feelings in the world and one worth pursuing.

Manifesting and falling in love with your soulmate/life partner, the ONE you’ve been dreaming about forever, is not only possible, it’s predictable that it will happen if you are willing to spend a little time and energy focused on your love life!

(And, even if you’re ALREADY with the love of your life, please read on and share this with your single friends.)

According to Carlos Santana, “Everything tastes better when you share it with your soulmate.”

For all of you who work hard to eat organic, do yoga, meditate, drink green drinks, practice compassion, etc., all the latest scientific research now shows that the single most important thing you can do, if your goal is to lead a long and healthy life, is to have a happy marriage.

And for that you need to manifest your soulmate/life partner.

Which is why I am super excited to announce that my annual FREE Art of Love Series starts today, June 20, (for 10 days) featuring the world’s top love & dating experts providing everything you need to know to get ready to be Crazy In Love!

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Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle

A Love Manifesto

More than 25 years ago, my therapist held a mirror in front of my face and asked me to look into my own eyes and say the words “I Love You.”

I was instantly engulfed in a wave of sadness and despair and whispered, “I can’t do that, it would be a lie.” He was kind and patient and urged me just to try it. Every time I tried to say it, I just cried harder. Eventually, I managed to mouth the words, but still it felt inauthentic….

imagesThat began a long, slow process of learning to love myself. The process of letting go of decades of self-loathing and self-doubt was hard. Painful, and yet totally worth it.

So often people ask me “Do I have to love myself in order to have soulmate love?” It’s a tricky question because nearly everyone I know (with or without a soulmate) has levels of self-doubt and insecurity about their worthiness to have love.

Here’s what I know to be absolutely true: 

We all have people that love us, we all have qualities that are very loveable. Even murderers and rapists have redeeming qualities, and yes, we are happy they are behind bars and no longer pose a threat to society.

Learning to love ourselves requires commitment.

A commitment to be an emotionally mature adult so that when we catch ourselves beating ourselves up, we stop, take notice, say “cancel-cancel” and replace those negative thoughts with a true, positive statement about ourselves.

Most of us are living under levels of stress and chaos that are often overwhelming because we allow ourselves to exist with out proper levels of self-care and self-love. I believe the first step to self-care is leaning how to “self-soothe.”

Another important piece of this is to finally stop “shoulding” on your self. You know what I mean, “I should do this and I should do that.” “Shoulding” on your self just creates more dread and stress on an already busy life.

One suggestion I have for you is this:

Create your own emotional tool kit of things you can do to regain your sanity when things go haywire. Figure out what are your best “time-outs” that will get you from crazy to neutral to happy again. My kit contains EFT Tapping, the Sedona Method, doing heart lock-in’s, long aromatherapy baths, walks in nature, and foot rubs. I do some or all of these things nearly every day.

Here’s what I know for sure: You are loved. You are loveable. You are deserving of Big Love, every day. And it all begins with you.

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,

Arielle

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