Love Advice About Mr. Right

I recently interviewed Lisa Steadman about her upcoming book If He’s Not The One, Who Is?: What Went Wrong – and What It Takes to Find Mr. Right (January 18, 2010) and her transformative 8 week teleclass based on the book. Lisa’s message is one of hope, inspiration, and empowerment for singles who are done with past dating drama, disaster, and disappointment, and ready to create happier and healthier dating futures.

We talked about how we both met our husbands when we started making different choices, shifted our beliefs, and started acting “as if” to get a better result. Lisa’s book is all about how women can celebrate being single so that they can fall in love with their lives and magnetically attract men who are interesting, available, and ready for a committed relationship.

AF: What do you think keeps single women stuck and unable to meet great men?
LS: Because our beliefs create our reality, when you believe there are no good men out there, you won’t find any. If you think the love of your life got away, and that you will never meet anybody as interesting and amazing as your ex, you’re right. You won’t. See, our subconscious is so committed to being right, it’s going to show us how right it is – by delivering those disappointing results we believe to be true. However, when you shift your thinking, you realize that it’s better to be happy than right. And in order to be happy, it’s time to let go of the idea that your happily ever after is in your past, and celebrate the fact that it’s in your future with someone new.

AF: How can single women learn from past relationships without feeling like failures or losers at love?
LS: For any woman out there who’s feeling bad about herself because she’s had her fair share of relationships and breakups, it’s once again time to shift your thinking. We’re not relationship failures. Our love lives have been karmically eventful. Thank God! If we never got our heart broken, if we never risked big and lost big, if we stayed in the first relationship we ever got into regardless of compatibility and shared values, would we learn anything? Life is messy, and the sooner we celebrate that – and the lessons that go along with it – the sooner we’ll fall madly in love with ourselves and our lives and that’s the key to attracting great men and eventually the love of our lives.

AF: In your book, you make the important distinction between dating disappointment and actual heartbreak. Can you elaborate?
LS: I work with so many smart, successful, savvy women who often mistake disappointment on the dating scene for heartbreak. The problem is that they end up wasting valuable time and energy nursing what they think is a broken heart, but is actually just a bruised ego. When you embrace the idea that dating disappointment isn’t heartbreak and instead is just a natural reaction to unmet expectations, you can create more realistic expectations, cut down on wasted time and energy, and meet Mr. Next more quickly, eventually calling in Mr. Right.

AF: What are some tell tale signs women can look out for to differentiate between Mr. Next and Mr. Right?
LS: On the road to happily ever after, you’ll meet and date lots of Mr. Nexts. Your job is to get to know these guys for who they are, and clearly see how they match up with your relationship requirements. Mr. Next can be fun, funny, and fabulous, but as soon as he reveals himself to be someone who doesn’t match up with your long term goals and requirements, you must let go and move on. Now, Mr. Right can also be fun, funny, and fabulous, AND he also takes an interest in you, celebrates who you are, and shares your common values. When you meet him, you’ll know. And that’s fabulous!

AF: Where can people go to find out more about you, your upcoming book and your teleclass?
LS: Because my book isn’t out until January, and my teleclass doesn’t start until February, I wanted to offer your subscribers something special for the holidays. Right now, when your subscribers visit ifhesnottheonewhois.com, they’ll get three exciting FREE bonuses:

1. A FREE quiz to help you decide if you know the difference between Mr. Next and Mr. Right

2. A FREE 60 minute audio introduction to my book and program If He’s Not The One, Who Is?: What Went Wrong – and What It Takes to Find Mr. Right

3. A FREE preview chapter from If He’s Not The One, Who Is?: What Went Wrong – and What It Takes to Find Mr. Right entitled Fairytales Do Come True (And Other Lies Your Mother Told You)

Please visit: www.ifhesnottheonewhois.com

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle

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Words: Love, Life, and Magic!

I’ve been thinking about words a lot this week. The words I want to say, the words I wish I had said, the words I want to hear, the words I say to myself, the words I want to write….I have been obsessed by words. There is so much beauty and power in words, especially song lyrics, so I thought I would share with you one of my favorite songs by Sting:

“The Book Of My Life”
by Sting

Let me watch by the fire and remember my days
And it may be a trick of the firelight
But the flickering pages that trouble my sight
Is a book I’m afraid to write

It’s the book of my days, it’s the book of my life
And it’s cut like a fruit on the blade of a knife
And it’s all there to see as the section reveals
There’s some sorrow in every life

If it reads like a puzzle, a wandering maze
Then I won’t understand ’til the end of my days
I’m still forced to remember,
Remember the words of my life

There are promises broken and promises kept
Angry words that were spoken, when I should have wept
There’s a chapter of secrets, and words to confess
If I lose everything that I possess
There’s a chapter on loss and a ghost who won’t die
There’s a chapter on love where the ink’s never dry
There are sentences served in a prison I built out of lies.

Though the pages are numbered
I can’t see where they lead
For the end is a mystery no-one can read
In the book of my life

There’s a chapter on fathers a chapter on sons
There are pages of conflicts that nobody won
And the battles you lost and your bitter defeat,
There’s a page where we fail to meet

There are tales of good fortune that couldn’t be planned
There’s a chapter on god that I don’t understand
There’s a promise of Heaven and Hell but I’m damned if I see

Though the pages are numbered
I can’t see where they lead
For the end is a mystery no-one can read
In the book of my life

Now the daylight’s returning
And if one sentence is true
All these pages are burning
And all that’s left is you

Though the pages are numbered
I can’t see where they lead
For the end is a mystery no-one can read
In the book of my life

I find these lyrics so haunting and beautiful… so, I leave you with this question: are you writing your chapter on love? What does it say and too whom?

Your thoughts, intentions and words have power and magic in them. Choose them wisely.

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love

Two Soulmates Share Their Secrets

I recently connected with a very special soulmate couple, Dr. Lara Fernandez & Johnny, who I’ve been hearing about for quite some time. Johnny and I were on a radio show together and I just loved hearing his approach to love and life and the love of his life, Lara. Johnny and Dr. Lara are dedicated to helping conscious, spiritual women prepare themselves in mind, body, spirit, and heart for the soulmate of their dreams. They are co-founders of LifeLaunch Training, home of the LoveLaunch Weekend Intensive. Last week I did a little mini-interview with them and here’s what I learned about them:

Q: I heard that you two have said that the Law of Attraction will NOT help you manifest your soulmate….what do you mean?

J& L: We totally believe in the Law of Attraction but it’s not the only answer. We have found that a lot of people need to do more of the inner work. It’s what we call “raising your vibration to being a soulmate.” This is how we believe you magnetize yours soulmate to you. You become more of who you really ARE rather than who you have been conditioned to be by society, our family and traditional media.

Q:How did you two meet?

Johnny’s story: Lara magnetized me from New York to San Francisco area 11 years ago. When I moved it was because I had a strong feeling that I need to be here in California. I came with no job, no friends just a knowing. Once I committed to moving, a job fell in my lap. I am a recovering smart guy (and a lawyer) and I began looking at what would be different for me in relationship since I had just come through a messy divorce. I found some mentors who taught me about spirituality and energy and who showed me how grow into the emotionally mature man I am today. One year after moving to California Lara and I met through www.match.com . A few months after that we moved into together and Lara shared with me how she magnetized me to her.

Lara’s story: I had been married and divorced at a young age. For years I had several six-month relationships. After the last excruciating breakup I decided to take a break from dating and began reading a lot of books on loving myself. I met an amazing coach who helped me do a lot of “inner work.” She was always there to remind me, who I really am. I was a chiropractor but not making much money and often complained that my soulmate wouldn’t love me because I wasn’t making a big salary.

She taught me that my soulmate would love me no matter what – that was a completely new concept for me!

I was sick and tired of being lonely and hanging out with other unhappy single women. I realized that I needed to commit to either finding my soulmate or becoming the cat lady. I chose to be commited to manifesting Big Love. I began writing letters to my soulmate. I began to feel like he was nearby. For the next two years I was focused on manifesting Big Love. During this time I created a soulmate wish list, a love altar, a vision board, and spent a lot of time meditating and connecting with nature.

Then within one week five people suggested I join www.match.com. I took that as a sign and even though I didn’t own a computer at the time, I went to a friend’s house and got online. I put up a profile (without a photo!) and two weeks later met Johnny! The rest is history.

Today, Lara & Johnny share their love and relationship magic through newsletters and a great workshop called the Life Launch Weekend. If you are ready to take the next step to removing the blocks in your love life, you can check them out at: www.launchyourlifenow.com

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,

Arielle

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love

The Power of Touch!

You won’t believe what I told my dear friend Allana… She interviewed me, we covered a LOT and it was Divinely delicious!! I have a pretty wonderful life yet I revealed things I may have never even told myself how does she do that with such grace?! That’s why she’s interviewed my sister Debbie, Whoopi Goldberg, Delta Burke, Lisa Nichols and more. At one point in the interview I actually SANG to her. Talking to Allana was a lot of fun and at the end of this message is a link so you can hear the interview (for free) if you wish.

Allana believes we are in such a high tech, low touch society, that we need to Slow Down and Touch. Here’s her sage advice:

1. Touch The Ones We LOVE! With those we trust and love, Allana encourages us to make conscious contact with someone, heart to heart. Then BE with them by holding hands, giving longer hugs (try it for 6 seconds!), and snuggling more with our kids. (I couldn’t agree more!)

2. Touch The Parts Inside We Neglect: She wants us to embrace, love, validate and be tender with our inner child who may feel scared, ashamed, angry, afraid or judged. Literally cuddle a pillow and imagine you’re being tender with a part of you who’s normally ignored. Make time to journal with the part of you that feels avoided, let her know you hear her, that you’ll take care of her, that all is well.

3. Touch Your Self: She actually does mean self pleasure! And not for the goal of orgasm, instead to expand our capacity for pleasure and help us teach our partners what really turns us on. She also recommends slowing down and say kind words to our thighs when putting on body lotion and even hugging ourselves to remind us how far we’ve come, and how brilliant this very moment is.

4. p.s. Touch NOT Those Vampires! She’s big on boundaries and insists we say NO to energy vampires. Even if they ask for a hug, stick out your hand and say, “I’d prefer a handshake. Thank you.” It takes the courage of risking they reject you, yet with practice, you can do it.

She’s doing something extraordinary this October 29th. Instead of explaining everything to you myself, here’s a complimentary copy of the interview so you don’t miss out…

www.sexysoulfulandrich.com

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses!

Arielle

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love

What I Know For Sure About Love

Here’s what I know for sure: finding true love is possible for any one at any age if you’re willing to prepare your self, on all levels, to become a magnet for love.

This wonderful Universe of ours is set up to deliver the people and things we draw to us that our consistent with our personal belief system. If you don’t believe you will ever find the ONE, then, guess what? You get to be right …you probably won’t.

If, however, you learn to believe that the ONE is not only out there but is ALSO LOOKING FOR YOU, then true love can be yours.

The basic Law of Attraction states that you will attract to you those things that match your state of belief.

Believing that your soul mate is out there is critical to the preparation of manifestation.

I believe that the Universe is always mirroring back to us our beliefs about our selves and the world. If we believe the world is a loving and friendly place, then most of the time that will be our experience. But, if we believe the world is a chaotic, stressful and fearful place, then that becomes our reality. So, believing and knowing that your soul mate is out there is the most important part of the formula.

What if I told you that it’s not your job to know HOW your soul mate is going to appear? What if I told you it’s only your job to be ready, willing and open to love. Think about it this way: you really don’t know where air comes from but you do believe that it’s always there for you, right?

The same is true for love. It’s there for you. It’s always been there for you. You just need to remember the love that you are and once you do, the Universe will deliver to you the perfect soul mate.

Here is what worked for me and I know it can work for you: When I was in my early forties I decided to manifest my soulmate using everything I had ever learned about manifestation, psychology, spirituality, and the Law of Attraction. My intentions became crystal clear while I simultaneously cleared out the clutter in my house AND in my heart. I learned and invented techniques, rituals, visualizations and prayers that helped me prepare my body, mind, spirit and home for an amazing relationship. And they worked. I met my husband, Brian, who has exceeded all of my desires and expectations. He was and is everything I ever wished for.

Big love is possible for any one of any age if you are willing to become a magnet for love. Continue to live each day in the knowingness that you are in a loving, committed relationship as you savor the waiting for your beloved to arrive.

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,

Arielle

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love

Big Love: Secrets from Soulmates Arielle & Brian

Dear Arielle & Brian,

I totally resonated with The Soulmate Secret and did 100%, of all the processes, working authentically on loving myself in a way I had never done before. I was happily savoring my time while waiting for my true love to walk into my life until I irrationally and aggressively and in an angry way contacted an ex-love interest. I now feel like I sabotaged everything I was trying to create and I am now having a really hard time forgiving myself. What I did was very ineffective and just made me feel like a fool. What kind of healing or books would you suggest for me? Thank you so much for any words of advice.
Lots of Love & Appreciation,
Leslie


Hi Leslie:

Before we get started please know we have lots of “love and appreciation” for YOU! Your honesty, courage and vulnerability needs to be acknowledged and if we were with you right now we’d shower you with infinite amounts of comfort hugs and hopefully provide you a “soft place” to land. So please reach out to your friends and family for that infusion of love and support—we all deserve that Leslie!! And then begin to REMEMBER that YOU will get through this but you will want to invest all the time you need to nurture yourself and really “feel” the full range of your feelings you’re experiencing which might be; fear, guilt, anger, sadness, anxiety, whatever might show up but please be patient with that process.

When your love and light begins to dissolve some of those darker moments and you’re beginning to feel a sense of joy and gratitude again please go back to your processes of building on that unconditional love for yourself. Then once again you will start to celebrate your life and your opportunities for a loving relationship—you will be “in the flow.” Leslie, YOU WILL get to that beautiful place you mentioned where you were “happily savoring” your own authenticity and knowing that a man would be very fortunate if he were to meet you at this time and place in your life. What a delicious and deserving intention and one we know you will manifest!!

Leslie, our response to your questions are just a reminder of how beautiful you are and that you were so successful with your earlier work and preparation you did to prepare for your soulmate. That time spent was not lost and in fact it serves as a wonderful foundation to build on and your spirit is even stronger for what you just went through. So with continued heart intention, a daily celebration of how beautiful you are (inside and out) and a open heart and mind to your infinite possibilities you will manifest the love you desire and absolutely deserve!!

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle & Brian
P.S. We would recommend you consider reading The Conscious Heart by Gay and Kathlyn Hendricks. They are the Masters of creating conscious loving relationships. We’d also suggest The Dark Side of the Light Chasers by Debbie Ford and any books from the Institute of HeartMath.


Arielle Ford has spent the past 25 years living and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is one of the founding partners of the Spiritual Cinema Circle, a DVD club dedicated to providing movies about love and compassion. She is the author of seven books including the HOT CHOCOLATE FOR THE MYSTICAL SOUL series and her newest book THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction. Her husband and soulmate Brian Hilliard is a business consultant with a life-long interest in spirituality and the practice of compassion. They live in La Jolla, CA www.soulmatesecret.com

Disclaimer: Arielle Ford, Brian Hilliard, the Big Love column and its publishers assume no responsibility for any consequence relating directly or indirectly to any action or inaction you take based on the information, services or other material related to this column.

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Big Love: Secrets from Soulmates Arielle & Brian

Dear Arielle and Brian,
I keep visualizing my soul mate and feel really open to him, and nothing is happening. What am I doing wrong?
Thanks for your help,
Isabel


Dear Isabel,
Why would you assume you are doing something wrong? Opening your heart and life to manifesting a soulmate requires patience because when your will and God’s will align that is what we call Divine Timing. In preparing to manifest your soulmate, an element of willful effort as well as big elements of faith and destiny is involved. It’s that powerfully synergistic combination of the three that will get you where you want to go. As your heart opens and you begin to feel totally ready for your beloved, your soulmate might be in the process of coming to you but still has to work through some details or issues. When you eventually do get together you will discover that you really did meet at the exact divine or magical time for both of you. Until then, we suggest that you ask yourself these questions:
*Do I believe that I am deserving of a soulmate and do I believe he is also looking for me?
*Am I clear about the nature of the persona and relationship that I now wish to manifest?
*Have I healed the baggage (issues or wounds) of my past relationships?
*Do I love myself and sincerely enjoy the pleasure of my own company?
*Do I have the true dedication, time, energy and resources to nurture another?
*Am I living as if my soulmate were already with me while I savor the waiting of his arrival?
You may see areas in which to invest some of your time, energy, attention and intention or you may be 100% ready and just need to savor the waiting.
Either way you choose Isabel, please know we support you 1000% and we’re sending you tons and tons of love, care and prayers for the outcome your heart and soul desires.
Love,
Arielle and Brian


Arielle Ford has spent the past 25 years living and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is one of the founding partners of the Spiritual Cinema Circle, a DVD club dedicated to providing movies about love and compassion. She is the author of seven books including the HOT CHOCOLATE FOR THE MYSTICAL SOUL series and her newest book THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction. Her husband and soulmate Brian Hilliard is a business consultant with a life-long interest in spirituality and the practice of compassion. They live in La Jolla, CA www.soulmatesecret.com

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love

Big Love: Secrets from Soulmates Arielle & Brian

Dear Arielle & Brian,

I am reading The Soulmate Secret and doing the exercises you suggest. Now I am wondering, how many soulmates can we have in this life because I am feeling connection and seeing more than one person as a potential soulmate? The bottom line here is: how am I going to know who is the one? Any advice is greatly appreciated!!

Thanks,
Maria


Dear Maria,
You are right, we do have the possibility of many soulmates in a lifetime. How much fun is that?? There is no set number just a nourished soul—YOU! If you have made your soulmate wish list that will help you in determining who the right person might be for you. They should definitely match the most important elements on your list and there should be powerful chemistry and mutual, shared visions for a healthy and loving life together. Once you align your list with someone and actually meet them—you probably will get severe “goose bumps” and from the deepest depths of your heart and soul there will be a loud and courageous “YES” that this is the one, this is how it happens!! “YES” I’m going to TRUST this voice and acknowledgement from source and “YES” I’m going to discern from my heart and soul as I move forward that this inner voice will assist me in determining if this brand new relationship blossoms and flourishes or maybe just settles into a wonderful friendship. Maria, It doesn’t get any better than that does it???
Best wishes and please know we’re sending you lots of love and support in your amazing quest for Big Love.
Love,
Arielle & Brian


Arielle Ford, author of The Soulmate Secret: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction and her husband Brian Hilliard, a business consultant, answer your questions about life, love and relationships. They believe that whether you are eighteen or eighty years old finding Big Love is always possible. Email your questions to: soulmatesecret@nullyahoo.com

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Beware of False Attractions!

I was interviewed recently on The MatchMatrix show by my friend Larry Michel and his partner Frank Seifert. Off the air Larry shared with me a remarkable love story about he and his romantic partner Cindy. I asked if he would write about it for us.

When I met my love Cindy she was dating another man. We had a very powerful and instant connection that was almost frightening. Most women and men I talk to can relate. Can you remember when you were so captivated and taken by a person that you felt instantly in love? Do you also remember totally doubting the intensity or depth of your feelings?

That was Cindy. Our hearts opened to each other instantly. It was much more than just good conversation and a physical appeal. There was a vibration that told me someone very special had come into my life. She loved it and doubted it at the same time.

I knew with certainty that this was a woman I wanted to spend time with. I was ready to expose my life and my heart and I started to do so.

There was one small challenge. Cindy was dating another man when we met. He was very interested in her. She was also very attracted to him. That attraction was so strong she decided to get serious and date only the “other guy”. We remained friends, but did not date.

This is where our story gets interesting. By running a MatchMatrix Relationship Report Cindy and I found out she has False Attractions. That means whenever she feels strong chemistry to a person and decides to follow that attraction she ends up in a relationship that doesn’t work.

We also found out she and I were perfectly energetically matched. When a couple is aligned like we are magic happens and soulmates are discovered!

I have been involved with MatchMatrix for years and know how powerful and misleading False Attractions are. Cindy needed to find out for herself.

A few months later that’s exactly what happened. She realized the relationship with the “other guy” was not going to work and we started to date again. We have been together ever since. She moved into my home and I adore her, as do my children.

Cindy will tell you that if she did not know about MatchMatrix she never would have come back. She would have followed her old patterns of meeting a guy and when it didn’t work, move on.

She realized two things she never knew before. She must not ever follow her False Attractions, and the amazing connection she experienced with me from the day we met was very real. Our hearts have been open and joyfully blossoming together ever since.

I feel blessed. Through MatchMatrix I have been able to guide thousands of men and women to loving and fulfilling relationships. And I get to crawl into bed every night with a woman I love and connect with in more ways than I have with anyone before.

Larry’s story illustrates the power of finding tools that can make a difference in love. Match Matrix can assist you in knowing if a relationship has true potential. www.matchmatrix.com

Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,

Arielle

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love

Imagine If…

When my nephew Beau was a little boy (he’s about to turn 15!) he would often announce to those around him that he was “busy playing with his imagination.” This was his way of telling us not to disturb him. We can all learn something from Beau: playing with your imagination is a powerful way to activate the Law of Attraction. Here’s a fun way to bring some new juice to your soulmate manifestation process:

Take 15 minutes and find a place where you can be completely undisturbed. Find a comfortable place to sit and close your eyes.

Breathe deeply and slowly for a minute or two. Let your shoulders drop, let the tension in your body drift away and then thank yourself for taking this time to have a little fun.I want you to use your imagination to go into the future.

First pick a year and a season…for instance you could use Fall 2011 (two years from now or go further out in the future).Now imagine that it is a Saturday morning. You are asleep but you can observe yourself. What do the sheets look like? What are you wearing? What time of morning is it? You are about to wake up (Don’t open your eyes yet) but you know that your soulmate is sleeping next to you with his or her back toward you.
Allow yourself to simply feel the presence of another in the bed with you. What are you feeling? Where in your body are you feeling it? Savor these feelings as you continue to breathe slowly.

Your soulmate is sound asleep, but you are beginning to wake up.Now, with your imagination, begin to remember the plans the two of you have for the weekend. You can’t see the face of your beloved, simply use your imagination to remember one of the events for the weekend that you are looking forward to. As you see this event, give it details. What will you be wearing? Where will you two be going? What is the weather like? What will be the most memorable part of the event? This can be any part of the weekend – from breakfast in bed, to lunch on the patio, to a walk on the beach, a hike in the woods, a bike ride, grocery shopping, painting the spare room….whatever event your imagination serves up to you is just perfect.

As you are observing you & your beloved (you can either see the back of their head or feel them behind you but no need to try and see their face) in this event, pick out three details to remember: maybe a color of something around you, a scent in the air, and most importantly an enjoyable feeling. Now notice where in your body that feeling is located and take a moment to spread that feeling throughout your body. Continue to breathe deeply and slowly and see yourself in this event closing your eyes.It’s now time to come back to the present moment. Feel your body sitting in the chair, feel your feet on the ground. Notice the temperature of the room. And when you are ready, open your eyes.

You have played with your imagination to reach into your future. The important thing to take away from this exercise is the feelings you experienced. You can tap into them at any time as a reminder that your soulmate exists.

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses!

Arielle

My new book Wabi Sabi Love is now available!  Finding your Soulmate is just the beginning.  Read how successful couples keep the soulmate fire burning.  Receive a priceless bonus bundle of advanced love attraction resources and techniques when you order your copy right here:   Wabi Sabi Love