When you’re first dating someone, everything feels new and exciting.However, if you’re not careful, this intense feeling can cause you to bite your tongue when he does something that doesn’t match your standards. This often stems from
However, if you’re not careful, this intense feeling can cause you to bite your tongue when he does something that doesn’t match your standards. This often stems from fear that making any waves can potentially mess up great thing up.
Today, I’ve invited my dear friend and dating expert, Mat Boggs, to share with you why and how speaking your truth actually builds his attraction for you. Please enjoy Mat’s insight and wisdom!
High-quality men find standards and boundaries highly sexy.
Here’s why: When you have standards and boundaries, this means you value yourself.
And when you value yourself, you ignite a deeper attraction in men for two reasons:
1. Social Proof.
What does this mean? When you value yourself and you act with confidence, that signals to your man that you must have choices. In other words, you have the option to be selective because you have men who desire you! And this sends a message to his subconscious mind that other men desire you — which tells him that he should desire you too.
2. Men Value What They Earn.
When a man has to work to achieve something, they will appreciate and value what they earn much more. If you communicate your standards to him, the right man will rise to the occasion and live up to those standards! When he achieves something other men have not, he feels special — and when a man feels special around you, you become special to him.
So, instead of ignoring red flags or adjusting your standards for him, stand confident in your brilliance and communicate what you want, because the right man will recognize and appreciate the value you hold in yourself.
Now, if you want to learn how to do this, Mat has a special offer for you.
He is offering a FREE online web class that goes deep into 3 essential secrets to manifesting the man of your dreams.
Sound interesting? You can sign up here FREE!
Remember, you are a unique, amazing, brilliant woman that deserves to have everything she wants. So don’t settle for anything less! 🙂
Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,