My Valentine’s Gift to YOU!

Happy Valentines Day – whether you are single, with the love of your life, or somewhere in between, I am waving my magic wand over you and sending blessings for a lifetime of deep, heart-opening, soul-stirring love for you (today and every day).

When I first married my soulmate, Brian, I was pretty clueless about what it takes to make a marriage totally awesome and amazing. What I didn’t know was shocking (!) and I often hoped someone would give me the comprehensive guide for growing and sustaining our soulful connection.

So, I became a student of love, scouring the world for wisdom from Love Masters, determined to create a one-stop resource for deepening communication, navigating common conflicts that come up, and keeping passion sizzling when the ho-hum of life sets in.

Now you can benefit from my findings, because next week I’ll be streaming 25 relationship seminars with the world’s top love experts – at no charge!

Join me February 18 – 20 for The Art of Love Relationship Series and take your relationship from ho-hum to hotter than ever!

It’s totally FREE! Sign Up Here.

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle

Meet Us in Paradise – Big Sur, CA

One of our favorite places in the world (besides India, Italy, and Bali) is Esalen, a stunningly beautiful retreat center in Big Sur, CA.

EsalenSitting high above the Pacific Ocean, this lush paradise offers world-class workshops, delicious organic food, (grown on-site) and the most amazing massages. (They actually invented many innovative massage techniques including a 4-hand massage!) Esalen is also famous for the healing hot tubs that are perched on a cliff over the ocean.

If this sounds enticing, then come hang out with Brian and I at Esalen, the weekend of December 4 – 6.

For the first time ever, The Soulmate Secret weekend workshop will be presented there.

If you are single and don’t want to be, join me in the workshop.

And, if you’re already living life with your soulmate, then check out the other workshops offered that same weekend we are there and hangout with Brian.

He will be soaking up the beauty of the land and having deep-dish conversations with everyone he runs into.

In this experiential (and fun!) weekend, you learn how to:

  • Utilize proven rituals and processes to attract the soulmate of your dreams
  • Experience healing techniques to let go of past heartbreak and remove blocks to love
  • Clarify your needs and desires to manifest long-term romantic fulfillment
  • Open your heart and connect with the partnership energy of the divine
  • Prepare your body, mind, spirit, and home for the arrival of your perfect life partner

As you come to realize that “the one” is not only out there, but also is looking for you, then true love can be yours.  (And I will teach you how to have “love before first sight!”) Details here!

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle

Let’s meet in person!

It’s wonderful that we can connect online every week, but I would really like to meet you in person!

PINK-Hi-Res-headshot-touched-upIf you would like to spend some time with me, I have four upcoming, life-changing LIVE in-person events. Two events (in Chicago and Bali) are for both couples and singles, and the other two events are for singles that are ready to manifest the love of their life! If you are ready to be inspired to manifest real magic, please join me at one of these locations:

London – One Day Only: The Soulmate Secret Workshop – Saturday, June 6th
This will be a fun and fast-paced intensive one-day workshop to manifest the love of your life. Topics include:

    • Clarify your needs, intentions and desires to bring in a loving partner.How to meet your love “before first sight!”
    • Open your heart through the power of feelingizations – the secret sauce to manifesting successfully.
    • Transformational rituals and other energetic shifting processes that will empower you to create and attract the partner of your dreams.
    • Register here!

Chicago, Celebrate Your Life Conference – June 12-15th
This is amazing weekend event with some of the biggest stars in the personal growth world including: Iyanla Van Zant, Neale Donald Walsch, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Michael Beckwith, James Redfield, Carolyn Myss, Panache Desai, James Twyman, and many others. I will be presenting two 90-minute presentations on June 13th & 14th: The Soulmate Secret and also Wabi Sabi Love: The Ancient Art of Perfect Love in Imperfect Relationships.  Register here!

Omega Institute, Rhinebeck NEW YORK – July 10-12th
The Soulmate Secret Weekend Workshop
This stunning rural retreat center, two hours north of NYC, is the ideal environment to go deep with the secrets to manifesting the love of your life. This workshop goes beyond the book and includes new transformative feelingizations and a fire-ritual to kick start your love life into high gear!  Register here!

Bali, Indonesia –  August 29 – September 6, 2015
Join Brian and I for a transformational and fun journey: The Manifest Your Biggest Unmet Dream (even if you don’t know what it is) Magical Mystery Tour of Bali. This beautiful and spiritual island allows you to effortlessly “remove” all kinds of energies and beliefs that hold you back from fulfilling your biggest dreams, purpose or destiny. Each day you will experience one – two hour sessions to remove “what’s in the way” and lead you to “what’s next.” Plus there are daily excursions with us to sacred places to deepen the experience via Temples, Waterfalls, Rituals with healers and shamans, Jungle Walks, River Rafting, Yoga, Meditation, healthy food and much more. It’s for singles and couples, seekers, who are ready to discover what’s next for them.  Click here for details!

Looking forward to meeting you soon!

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle

The Magic of A Bucket List

The Magic of A Bucket List

About one year ago Brian and I were talking about the best concerts we have ever been to. I realized that I had never seen one of my all time favorite singers perform live….the amazing Stevie Wonder! In that moment, I declared that going to a Stevie Wonder concert was the #1 item on my bucket list. Six months later, I was reading the Los Angeles Times and came across a story for his upcoming concerts. We immediately bought 3rd row center seats.

What a night that was.

Best concert I’ve ever seen.

It exceeded all my dreams of seeing Stevie Wonder live in concert.

Having a bucket list is different from daily or yearly goals. It fulfills a big dream and creates an experience and warm memories that will last a lifetime.

Bri & Ari Bali gardenFor many years, visiting Bali was on my bucket list. I had heard about it, seen photos, and of course read about it in Elizabeth Gilbert’s book Eat, Pray, Love.

Three years we ago we went for the first time. Not only is Bali the most beautiful place I’ve ever been, spending time there provided me with unexpected and magical things I never anticipated.

Bali is a very spiritual island in Indonesia that is made up of Hindu’s who pray every day. These are happy, smiling, friendly people who seem to exist to make others happy. The weather is tropical, the food delicious, and the terrain and sites are like eye-candy.

I had expected the trip to be a fun and relaxing vacation, but I was blown away by how just BEING in Bali transformed me.

Energetically, this is a very special place.

The lack of density, the gentleness, the soothing energy and vibes, healthy food, and inherent mysticism of Bali took me to a deep, profound, healing and relaxing space. Prior to arriving there, I knew that I was stressed out, but what I didn’t know was how emotionally, physical and mentally depleted I was.

Bali wdancersBali changed my life.

Being there allowed me to “remove” all kinds of energies and beliefs that were holding me back and transformed my life for the better. Which led to unexpected amounts of creativity, better health and prosperity.

“Creating a transformative workshop in Bali” went to #1 on my bucket list.

Guess what happened next? I received an invitation from two women who have spent the last 20 years producing sacred journeys and workshops in Bali (asking to meet with us about the possibility of creating a workshop there). After learning about their successful experiences and meeting them, seeing and feeling the love they bring to their events, Brian and I agreed to do this!

We have named it: Manifest Your Biggest Unmet Dream (even if you don’t know what it is) Magical Mystery Tour of Bali.

We’d love for you to join us August 29 – September 6, 2015.

We will also be hosting a teleconference to share more details on March 12th at 5pmPT /8pmET. Sign up here for the call.

Or, if you are ready to just say YES TO BALI, go here: www.heartlabtours.com.

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle

What Plato Knew About Soulmates

Have you ever wondered why we humans seek a soulmate?

What is it about us that craves this deep connection to another?

Are we genetically designed to be mated?

One fascinating and possible answer comes from Aristophanes, a philosopher of ancient Athens. He offers a wild tale, that he shared at Plato’s Symposium, about how the deep desire for Oneness came about.

Long, long ago in primal times people had doubled bodies, four arms, four legs, two heads and they were big and round…. These roly-poly creatures wheeled around earth like clowns doing cartwheels & were very powerful.

There were three sexes: the all male, the all female, and the “androgynous,” who were half male, half female.

The males were said to have descended from the sun, the females from the earth and the androgynous couples from the moon.

The creatures tried to scale the heights of heaven and planned to set upon the gods. Zeus thought about blasting them to death with thunderbolts, but did not want to deprive himself of their devotions and offerings, so he decided to cripple them instead by chopping them in half with his sword, thus, in effect separating the two bodies. . The severed halves were then scattered in opposite directions…

Aristophanes claimed that when two people who were torn apart from each other find each other, they never again want to be separated again from their soulmate.

Roly PolyWhen a half finally does meets its other half, they become deliriously happy and overjoyed with the promise of new love and delight. They believe that they are complete now that they are reunited with their other half, thus obtaining “wholeness.”

When Jean Houston first shared this story with me, I felt the “rightnesss” of it.

Of course we are meant to share our lives with someone!

KWT blue smIf you feel that way too, and you are ready to discover some new ways to be pro-active to making it happen, please join my good friend, licensed psychotherapist and bestselling author Katherine Woodward Thomas, MA, MFT, for a free online seminar designed to support you in the process of uncovering and then releasing your hidden inner-barriers to love, so you can at last “call in” the committed, nurturing partnership of your dreams!

Calling in The One: How to Identify and Release Your Hidden Barriers to Love &
Become Magnetic to Your Soulmate

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle

Heaven Can Help You!

I have a FREE teleseminar coming up that I can’t wait to tell you about….especially if you have you ever wondered what really happens once we leave our physical body and our soul enters the world beyond this one!

Many books describe the near-death experience; our spirits go through as a “tunnel of light,” and they feel an unconditional love beautiful beyond description, and then a higher being or angel tells the soul it’s not your time, you must go back.

What if we could hear from a soul who didn’t come back?

What if we could take a journey into the deepest realms of the afterlife? Who are we with? What are we doing?  What is love like on the other side?

My friend, Annie Kagan, is the author of the international bestselling book, The Afterlife of Billy Fingers: How My Bad Boy Brother Proved To Me There’s Life After Death.

This book tells the true story of how Annie’s brother Billy took her on a real-time journey into the mysteries of life after death and the nature of Divine Love.

I recently wrote a new book, Love On The Other Side: Heavenly Help for Love and Life (get it for free at www.loveontheotherside.com ). After my sister’s transition, she began communicating with me about how to ask your departed loves one for assistance and also shared what love in heaven is all about. In this book I reveal what I’ve learned from Debbie and it also contains compelling true stories about what happens when one half of a soulmate couple dies and how the love connection continues in the afterlife.

Annie and I are teaming up for a one-time only free hour-long teleseminar to discuss these juicy topics and answer your questions.

Please join us on Saturday, January 3rd at 9:00amPT/Noon ET by registering here.

If you can’t make the LIVE call, we will be sending everyone who registers the replay link within 48 hours.

(We have room for 1,000 participants, if you don’t make it onto the live call, don’t worry, you will get the replay link.)

 

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle

Everyone Gets Hurt. The Happiest People Do This…

I was talking with my good friend, Evan Marc Katz, the other day. You have heard me sing his praises many times – he’s a dating coach for smart, strong, successful women – and one of the better writers in the personal growth space. Part of the reason I continue to read his work is because he is a real, hands-on coach – he has been listening to women on the phone for three hours a day for over a decade, and he has incredible insight into what makes men tick and relationships succeed.

Well, during the course of conversation, Evan and I happened upon one of the primary reasons it’s hard to get back out there after getting hurt: the tremendous loss of confidence you suffer during a break-up. Not just confidence in your ability to choose a partner and navigate a relationship, but a loss of confidence in yourself.

When we were talking, Evan gave me an analogy that really stuck with me, that came straight from Dale Carnegie’s “How to Win Friends and Influence People”

Imagine a car salesman. He’s trying to get you to buy something from him, but the way he’s doing it is having the opposite effect:

“Um, so, I know you’re probably really busy today, but maybe, I don’t know, you might want to consider buying a Toyota Camry. Sure, it’s a little bit more expensive than other cars, and yeah, the economy is down, and yeah, you can probably get something just as good that is pre-owned. But maybe you want to test drive a Camry anyway?

No? You don’t? I kind of figured you’d say that. After all, there are tons of cars that are nicer looking, get better mileage, and have better resale value.

Wait – don’t go! I mean, you can go if you think there are any other cars you’d like better, but maybe you’d still like to buy a car from me today? I mean, I don’t take it personally if you leave – okay, that’s not true. I will take it personally if you leave, because I’m really quite desperate to sell a car this month and I haven’t had anyone buy from me in a really long time, and—“

Of course, this is a caricature of the worst car salesman ever, but the point should be clear:

Why would you buy a car from a guy who doesn’t believe in his own product?
That’s right. You wouldn’t.

The question for you – and it’s a challenging one – is this:

Do you believe in your own product?

Do you think that a man would be a fool to go out with anyone else?

Do you believe that the best men would want to commit to you?

Or do you inadvertently come across a bit like the insecure car salesman?

He’s not suggesting that you’re currently blurting out all of your own flaws or openly encouraging your dates to pursue other women.

He is suggesting that your actions may indicate the same thing.

Every second you spend with a man who mistreats you, every week you spend with a man who fails to make you feel safe, heard and understood, you are demonstrating your lack of confidence.

Without speaking a word, you’re telling him you will stay in your dissatisfying relationship and that you don’t need to be treated better.

If you had confidence that you deserved more, you’d already be out the door.

So, why would a man commit to a relationship with someone who doesn’t believe in her own product? A woman who can barely summon any confidence in herself?

That’s right. He wouldn’t.

Everyone suffers a loss of confidence after a break-up. And yet, there’s something unique about love that always makes you come back for more.

The warm feeling you get when you wake up next to him on Sunday morning.

The belly laughs you share over your inside jokes.

The strength he demonstrates in making you feel better after a bad day.

The generosity he displays with each flower, dinner, and movie ticket he buys.

But the best part of being in love – in my opinion – is the least heralded one.
What people often forget about love is how wonderfully SAFE a great relationship is.

If you’ve never experienced that safety, I’m telling you, there’s nothing quite like it.

Brian and I hope to be one of those “’til death do us part” couples. We both feel that there is nothing in the world that could break us up. Because of that, disagreements are rare. Arguments are resolved instantly. Any friction is a mere blip on the radar. All because we hold our marriage sacred and view it greater than our individual needs.

I’m attracted to Brian’s inner confidence – which has nothing to do with how much money he makes, and he’s attracted to my inner confidence – my belief in my ability to create, to persevere, to grow. The safety of our relationship allows that confidence to shine and never be shaken. And, boy, does it feel great.

Think about how you would feel to have that kind of relationship.

How relaxed. How confident. How secure.

Now if you’ve never experienced this before, I’ll admit it can sound far-fetched.

If all you know from relationships is heartbreak, confusion and frustration, talking about a man who makes you feel safe probably sounds like talking about the probability of Martians landing on Earth.

I promise you. It’s not.

Martians – I mean, men who make you feel safe – are REAL.

So where are they? And how do you find them?

This is the $64,000 question. And this is the reason Evan Marc Katz wrote his book, “Believe in Love – 7 Steps to Letting Go of the Past, Embracing the Present, and Dating with Confidence.”

In it, he walks you through 7 easy, chronological steps that he has used for over a decade to help women like you overcome your fears and frustrations in love.

  1. Let Go of the Past
  2. Set Realistic Expectations
  3. Overcome Negativity
  4. Defeat Your Fear of Failure
  5. Reframe Your False Beliefs
  6. Carry Yourself With Confidence
  7. Take Action Now

It is no exaggeration to say that “Believe in Love” is the most important book I can share with you because it’s essential to your happiness and long-term well-being.

There is no falling in love if you don’t believe in love itself.

After all…

You’ve seen men come and go.

You’ve doubted your own worthiness.

You’ve watched others get happily married.

You’ve questioned your judgment more times than you can count.

You’ve gone to therapy, talked to friends, and listened to dating gurus.

You’ve taken breaks, gotten back out there, and quit once again.

“Believe in Love” is the antidote to all of that – a program, with 17 powerful exercises that will change your tune, boost your confidence, and give you the will to create the safe relationship of your dreams.

Let me know how quickly it gets your confidence back. Oh, and Evan is being nice enough to offer it to you for$50 off of the normal retail price. All you have to do is enter the coupon code “BELIEVE” at checkout.

It’s time to believe in your own product again. Once you believe, the men you are attracted to will believe as well.

Wishing you love, laughter & magical kisses,

Arielle

Inviting God Into Your Love Life

One of the most important and life-changing books I’ve ever read is “Conversations with God” by Neale Donald Walsch. When I read it, nearly 20 years ago, I was so knocked out by the powerful, transformational content, that I picked up the phone, called information, found Neale’s phone number and called him!

When Neale answered, I thanked him profusely for writing the book. We spoke for quite awhile and he asked me what I did for a living. I explained that I was a book publicist, and he said “we should work together.” That was the start of a long friendship. Last week I had the honor of interviewing him at his retreat center in Ashland, Oregon.

One of the questions I asked him was “how does being in a love relationship help us?”

Here’s what he said:

“It creates a field that we can step into and grow to become and to experience, to declare and express, the grandest idea that we ever had about who we are. A relationship provides us with moment-to-moment, day-to day opportunities to step into that, even when the people we love become challenging. It’s the very challenge that relationship presents to us that is our grandest invitation from God. God is asking us, especially in our relationship life, a single question “What aspect of me do you choose to demonstrate now.”

Wow.

That really got me thinking… in every moment, how do I want to show up for my beloved? How can I become the grandest version of myself in life and in love?

Spending that time with Neale, I felt a shift within myself…I felt my heart opening and expanding to a place of really aspiring to become a grander version of myself on all levels.

If you are curious about how to do this, in an amazing coincidence and perfect timing…it turns out that Neale has an upcoming FREE online event,
“The 3 Secrets to Ending the Struggle and Making Your Life Work.”

In it, Neale will reveal and give you a newfound understanding of a greater truth, which will enable you to live fearlessly, love unconditionally, and be happy… no matter what happens in your life! (if you can’t attend live-they’ll send you the recording!)

Wishing you love, laughter & magical kisses,

Arielle

LOVE: Have It Your Way

The other night I was talking to friend and dating expert, Evan Marc Katz, about why some women have so much trouble with finding love. Not surprisingly, we both had the exact same point of view and it came down to one word: softness.One of the soulmate “blockers” some women have (especially busy, successful women over 40) is an unconsciousfear that when their soulmate shows up, he will suppress their freedom and take up all of their time. Especially if they grew up in a traditional home from the 1950’s, 60’s or 70’s where Dad went off to work, and Mom was a housewife catering to Dad’s needs and his wishes always came first!

Many of todays busy, single women are really enjoying their lives. Most have kids, even grandkids, and businesses, friends, adventure travel, hobbies and while they crave companionship and would love a soulmate, in the back on their mind, they have a belief that they will have to give up – a lot – to make room for someone new.

Here’s the good news: you get to choose. You can have it YOUR way!

When you are using the Law of Attraction, being clear with your intention and your soulmate wish list, you get to design your future relationship. If you want a 24/7 relationship with someone that you marry and work from home with, create that.

If you want a soulmate but would prefer to live apart, and see each other twice a week until you retire, or only get together on weekends, then focus on that lifestyle.

You are more powerful than you know, so get clear on what your heart most desires and needs in your soulmate relationship and then go out and make it happen.

You can have it your way!

Wishing you love, laughter & magical kisses,

Arielle

P.S. And if you feel you have emotional bocks to love and need help with that, don’t miss this free online workshop, hosted by my dear friend, licensed psychotherapist and bestselling author Katherine Woodward Thomas, MA, MFT.

Calling in The One: How to Identify and Release Your Hidden Barriers to Love & Become Magnetic to Your Soulmate

Celebrating 16 Blissful Years

This past weekend Brian and I celebrated our 16th wedding anniversary. Wow, does time fly! One of the assumptions I had about marriage was that the longer I knew my partner, eventually I would be a bit bored….so not true! Brian continues to be most loving and fascinating person I have ever met, and we have so much fun together!

In 1998 we had three weddings. This photo was from our “legal” wedding where we had rock star Kenny Loggins who volunteered to be our officiant and wedding singer!

I was reflecting on what it took for me to become a first-time bride at the age of 44, and thinking about all the years I was certain that I would never find “the One.”

I had such a history of bad relationships, bad choices, that even my own mother had lost hope for me.

I’ll never forget the morning I woke up, at age 43, and made the decision to figure out how to manifest a soulmate. I still get excited remembering how my mind went into overdrive thinking about all the various prayers, processes and rituals I had used to manifest a highly successful career, that I would now transform into a soulmate manifestation process.

What I didn’t know then, is that not only would I manifest to most perfect man in the world (for me), but that I would be reach a level of happiness that I never dreamed possible.

For the past ten years I have been teaching this process, to thousands of men and women around the world, and nearly every day I receive an email, phone call, letter or Facebook message from happy couples who have found each other through the Soulmate Secret process.

I never tire of reading these success stories, they just make my heart sing knowing that more people how found the love of their life.

Here’s what I now know for sure: Finding true love is possible for an one at any age, if you are willing to prepare yourself on all levels to become a magnet for love.What you may not know is that you might have some “soulmate blockers.” These are unconscious thoughts, beliefs or energies, that are getting in your way.

If you want to clear them, then I invite you to join me for a free teleseminar, that just might make all the difference in the world for you.

It happens this Thursday on August 14th – don’t miss it!

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,

Arielle